Have you ever had these feelings?

At the end of the day, I always prefer listening to some good songs so that I am in relaxed mood irrespective of how my day have been. But what actually disturbs me is the thought of getting up early next morning and going to the office. Other than that usually I never had an extremely bad d ay of sorts. Even if such a day comes, I hope my friends would be there with me.

yes ido..coz sometimes its better that way coz they will not be in the bias position during opinion and advicing moment right???

If I have this kind of feeling, I think the reason I don't want to share with my friends or relatives, which is I don't want to show my weakness to them. But to a stranger, it is much easier to talk to a stranger, cause he doesn't know you, even he knews your problem, then so what? He is just a listener, you don't have to pay for the result that tell a stranger about your issue.

Maybe part of the answer lies in the very thing that you have drummed up the courage to do.....namely posting your thoughts on MyLot! Rather than trying to initiate a conversation with one of your friends I feel that you can find a more satisying release in engaging with 'strangers'. Alhough I am new to this site I do think it can offer a good sounding board for venting frustrations and for trying to unravel dilemmas. Most,if not all, reponses seem to be made in good faith by like-minded people and 'many hands make light work' as they say.

I experienced that too. That there's something that I so long to do but I couldn't figure out what it is. It's can be really sad. It's those times that we ought to re-examine our priorities, our goals, and what can really satisfy and make us happy.

I feel like this too when im stressed about like, right now i'am unemployed and i get depressed sometimes but i just pray and believe God to handle it, and i feel better about the situation, i suggest you do the same.

I don't have these feelings when I was a 14 or 15 but now I am 31 with depression illness, I often thought this in time of a day, I feel useless to talk to anyone also, at last I switch on the TV or sometimes mylotting to release my stress. I think its normal though.

Hello xiaopenggai, i have these feelings all the time. Most of the time i will share them with my families or close friends, but there are still some very private ones i will never speak out, but i would like to share with strangers on the interent, because we never met and know nothing about each other, you don't need to worry about they may tell something to your real life friends. Last year i met someone on the internet, at first we were just some kind of friends, but when we talk and talk and talk, we found we were so similar with each other, now we are very close friends and have met each other face to face several times. Sharing with someone is much better than suffering by you alone.

hi xia, If I feel this way I rather not to talk to anyone and be with myself alone rather than to talk to some I don't want to drag them with my issues which I don't know why I a really like that. Actually I hate to be like this but I think most people have this kind of feelings sometimes happy mylotting

I think that's perfectly normal to feel that way. I find it weird that I find myself not in the mood for talking to my friends. I long for silence. I even sit in a cafe and talk to the barista or to a kid nearby. I think it is sometimes better to talk to strangers because there are objective, never subjective and they will likely tell the truth. Thanks

I have had these feelings too and I have chose to share it with total stranger on the net like here on mylot. I can pour my heart out here for whatever the situation is and whatever the topic is. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

There is absolutely nothing at all that need to be expressed I think, as all you want express is expressed all by yourself. Keep things straight if can't say it to something then there is nothing at all you actually to speak out. If there has been something you would have shared it. That is nothing. and there is absolutely nothing that may keep you depressed or think bad of yourself. It's your mind that sometimes creates confusions and makes you feel bad. Control your mind and control your emotions and there is much better to be quite than talking rubbish or things that does not make any sense. So I think being quiet is the best thing.

I've had this feeling before on so many occasions. Never had the guts to share with other people because I don't want to risk them making me feeling even worse or belittling my feelings. It's hard to find someone who will actually listen and have genuine and worthwhile advise to share. Sometimes what I do is right it down just to express my feelings and I often feeling better. It better than pouring my heart out to some who will just stomp on them.

sometimes i feel that way too...u know why is that sometimes u like to talk with strangers its becoz she/he doent know u.your attitude,so he/she will not be bias on wat he or dhe will advice...right???

I get that feeling too. Sometimes when I'm so tired and stressed, I overthink a lot. I even have a partner but it seems that I don't want to share it to him. I just want to keep it to myself. Not because I don't want him to know but because I don't want to share my burden to him. What I just do is pray to God. I even cry in my prayers when I feel that I can't take it anymore. I know that God will always listen and no matter how difficult it is to explain how I feel, I know God will always understand.