To be yourself, today, is a defect?

Big difference between essence and appearance not only say it's a long way to be yourself. You look different than you does not trust itself to be vulnerable and you relate yourself to expectations. When looking always to measure up to expectations that are not yours do not have how to be yourself. What bothers us to another person is nothing but mirror our problem. To be yourself requires you to be true to yourself, reporting not only give you an idea of ??the level at which you stand. The image formed on the image others passed through the filter of their values ??is unrealistic because it is subjective. But it worked. If someone says he is wise, but according to their own evaluation system believe untrue statement, reporting only serves to situate what I above, below or in agreement with the statement. But I will get better. However if you manage to be yourself. Large discrepancy between truth and appearance is but we face a vulnerable, in a continuous internal war without form and content, content only borrowed. It is very good that 'birds of a feather flock together. "That's why we get to have mutual friends :) What I can remove the image created about someone are criminal actions and compliance with content from my system of values ??in another proportion, totally different. Otherwise, everyone is entitled to privacy, and if we declare that we know everything about ourselves would need to have the title of master. And we do not have. Thanks for response.

My vision of the new man is the rebel in search of self, his true face. A man ready to throw all masks, all prefabricated characters, all hypocrisy, ready to show the world who he really is. And if you have loved or condemned, respected or booed, crowned or crucified, for it will be the same, because to be yourself is the greatest blessing of existence. Thanks for response.