Behavioral Children

United States
September 11, 2012 8:52pm CST
Now that my children are grown and having families of their own, I realize I didn't do too bad of a job as a parent after all. I have 3 son, 2 of which had some behavior problems. As a parent (I was a single parent) some times you have to make some hard decisions that not only effect the behavioral child but all those involved. I remember when my oldest son was seeking therapy, I too, went to therapy to deal with my guilt of putting my son into treatment centers to help him with his issues. I learned that I shouldn't feel guilty, because at the time I was doing what I thought was best for everyone. Now that he is grown he tells me that I did a good job, even at the time he thought I didn't love him. He now realizes I do love him , because I was trying to get him help, not just to send him away.
3 responses
@GardenGerty (159850)
• United States
12 Sep 12
Oh we hurt so badly when our children hurt or cannot function. Been there after my son was an adult. He just transitioned from his group therapy program, but he knows that we always loved him. You did well.
• United States
12 Sep 12
Thank-you GardenGerty! It's always nice to hear from the person that was going through the troubles and finally know that all was not in vain. Actually something good came of it.
@kris3rdE (156)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
Hi Stoutjodee! Good Job! Being a mom and a provider at the same time are not an easy tasks. I salute you for making your sons responsible Adults. My kids are still young and I hope that when they grow up they'll appreciate the things I do for them. Thanks for sharing this it inspires me more!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Wow! That was a touching moment for you after hearing your son complimenting you for being a great mother to him. I think that is your reward as a parent- bringing up kids to this world that have become such good people.