girls become been disliked with ages

China
September 11, 2012 9:02pm CST
even though i am reluctant to accept , but the fact is that girls will become been disliked with ages go , after 25 , people may treat you as leftover lady , though you look young , the age is that , and you can't change . i was feared about that , when the time comes ,that means i am no longer young ,that is terrible .
4 responses
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
12 Sep 12
I think it still have something to do with personal preference. I have a few guy friends who wouldn't date younger girls or girls their age, they prefer older girls. They find it sexy, and the more mature a girl is, the more attracted they are to them. As for the biological clock thing, again for me it is also a personal preference. Some people are okay with not having kids, while others who want to even at a later age can do so with the help of doctors. I do respect the culture and believes of other people, but I don't think it's right for them to base liking someone on age.
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• China
12 Sep 12
Raine , i admire your reasonable analysis , in fact , personal preference on this topic also exists in China.but the truth is that more boys like young girls . when i chatted with my high school classmate tomorrow , he said with joking : you are going to be a big girl after graduate school .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
12 Sep 12
I think your young as you feel and any where in your 20 and 30 are young . Your culture might be different and treat woman that way . You dont even have grand children how could they consider you old ? Enjoy your life because age only go up .
• China
12 Sep 12
this concept is especially exist in our elders , they think girls should have a family before 25 . but this phenomenon doesn't exist in boys
• United States
13 Sep 12
You will be ok just be strong and not let anyone pressure you into getting married , it will happen the right time .
• China
13 Sep 12
thanks silverfox, i always dream to meet the right one at the right time. i will not let any pressure affect me.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Sep 12
Perhaps where you live not over here. BTW men are disliked too if they get older, still are a loser, have no income, don't take care of themselves, are too hairy and command us around. Most women over here won't accept that. They don't need a man anyway since they are able to take care of themselves. Fact is that the biggest group of singles are women who are educated, esp. the high educated women. They are sick and tired of taking care of men next to their job(s) and carreer. But if you think are disliked because of your age you surely are. Since this is the message you send to other people. Sounds to me that you have less self esteem. Nobody will go for a person like that either. Better work on yourself. If you don't find yourself worth a partner nobody will. Reluctant to accept??????
• Indonesia
13 Sep 12
You should not have to worry about your age. There are many things that you can enjoy in life rather than busy worrying about your age. Dogs bark, the caravan passes. What matters is the happiness you achieve, not what you should accomplish for fear of hearing other people's opinions.
• China
13 Sep 12
thanks , i will do what i want ,nowadays , more and more people attend graduate school , and many are 24 after got the master's degree.