cheating

hi indahfth oh my I think cheating can be based onboth lust and love but seems to me like a cheater must not really love his wife or he would never dishonor her like that at all. For some men they at times do not know real love from lust and go from wife to other wo men like a bee to flowers ,.I h ave no pity for a man who is cheater as he is not to be trusted and has no resp ect for the woman he married,I think most of them never really loved their wives as much as just lusted for them. a good marriage is based on mutal love, trust,honor and respect for each other.

I beleive that cheating on a spouse happened because they simply did not work their relationship as husband and wife, and they maybe lack of love to their spouse... Because i believe that if one truely loves a spouse she or he cannot afford to hurt him or her through any form of cheating...

Personally from my standpoint of view, anytime a couple either the man or the wife finds themselves cheating it is wrong. And if their was Love and real Romance in their life it would never happen. To me, this is adultry and unacceptable. People need to realize that marriage should be more sacred than this.

Some men think they can love two women at the same time. Not so! Everyone is getting cheated.

hi, i have seen some people who cheat there husband/wife and also people have been cheated by there husband/wife,when it comes to love maybe they still find something that they couldn't find in there husband/wife or they don't have this kind things sometimes the usual is the caring.

Cheating is done through sudden emotions of wanting something. It doesn't mean that when a person have cheated once they do not love their spouse. It's a big mistake that can ruin the relationship. The person who cheated would feel bitterness in his or her heart. Once repentance occur, forgiveness and forget should be entitled for the person who have cheated. Hence, if cheating turns back to be present, it's a good proof that the person is not in real feeling of love for the spouse. Lucky for those individuals who did not cheat, and didn't experienced to be cheated by their loved ones.

i do not agree and i do not think that cheating is based on love. it is never going to be based on love! it is of lust and lust alone. most cheating relationships never flourish into something more than two people getting that stolen moment to bee together.

i think that people can cheat for different reasons. imagine that you have a bf that doesnt give you attention. and then you meet a guy that is super sweet and loves you. sometimes people dont think and just act. and then when you see you cheated on your bf. in this case the girl cheated bcs she didnt feel loved by her bf. the best is if you are not happy with your relation to end it. life is too short to spend our days sad with someone that doesnt care for us. then there are others that cheat bcs just want to play around. want many girls at the same time. a player and in this case is lust.

Hi friend, real and sincere love don't know cheating activities, it always remain loyal, if a person have the ability to cheat or betray his partner, then his love is not a real one and it is merely lust

cheating is a combination of chance and choice again. if you will it then it is a choice but if there was a chance, like a flirting man or woman infront of you, well that is a choice made out of a very good chance to cheat.. but i dont think that the love for your wife or husband , i believe that if any one cheats, its the respect that was gone.

Cheating, whether based on love or based on lust, will still be cheating. Its not even measured up until what percent or how much you have cheated, its just whether you cheated or not. Just like honesty, its whether you are honest or not.

The love for the spouse is still there, but some people still search for that something that is missing in their partners. What most do not realize is that they are exchanging a value meal for an expensive gourmet dish that won't even reach the tummy. How one handles the cheating will show the cheating partner why a value meal is a way better deal than an expensive gourmet dish. :) That's how you win love back.

Cheating is a misguided desires that probably starts on lust if not caught and if the other partner surrenders his/her right over the cheating partner this would with all my convictions grow into love (cheaters loving each other) while at the same time the cheater would probably is still in love with her/his partner. I know a cheater who said " Even if I cheated on my wife and I do love my paramour, it would surely kill me if I leave my wife or my wife will leave me". Our religion is Roman Catholic, we do not practice multiple marriages so this is a bit confusing.

Cheating is a misguided desires that probably starts on lust if not caught and if the other partner surrenders his/her right over the cheating partner this would with all my convictions grow into love (cheaters loving each other) while at the same time the cheater would probably is still in love with her/his partner. I know a cheater who said " Even if I cheated on my wife and I do love my paramour, it would surely kill me if I leave my wife or my wife will leave me". Our religion is Roman Catholic, we do not practice multiple marriages so this is a bit confusing.

Cheating is breaking the trust of another. In a love relationship there is no excuse for this and it will tarnish the relationship many times beyond repair.

Im not sure with other people think but as for me i would say that cheating husband or wife might be based on lust and money matterguys are more attractive to lust while girls are more attractive to money if im not mistaken. That's why i rather want to be a mistress of my own husband doing what the mistress is doing with all the sexy clothes, look lovely all the time with perfume that makes him go home early al the time, also make surprises during the night by turning out the light and put some scented candle light which is more romantic and to wear super sexy lingerie as im sure the husband cant resist itor give my husband a massage. Husband also want to feel very important same as the wife who love to be cared, a kiss and a hug with a simple i love you or your pretty today is already enough to touch their heart, husband can be romantic so that even if the guy doesn't have much money but if his full of love then i don't think the girl will still jump to another guy. Sometimes if we have kids we become busy taking care of the kids nor other things like our work and we already become so tired giving time with our partner.

SELINGKUH (Selingan Indah Agar Keluarga Utuh Bahagia) that some people said about cheating, swing, etc. But as a muslim, you know what is the punishment for Zina, right? Whether for married or unmarried. So, whatever the reason, cheating is forbidden.

It may based on love, and it may based on lust. Some people can give their heart for two persons. Some people can cheat even though they still love their spouse and do not love their cheating partner. And some people do not love their spouse anymore then cheat.

Cheating in love, in exam, in office not good. I not understand why people need cheating why they not live happy life even they knows life is short.

Well, there might be based on love but mostly it is based on lust. Love for the spouse may be misunderstood as already gone but it may just become sour. One man that I know confessed that he still loves his wife but he was just tempted by his paramour. So that is it, cheating is generally based on lust.