my dear cousin had stole my boyfriend :(
By saraaaa01
@saraaaa01 (33)
Morocco
September 12, 2012 6:11am CST
i choose this account to show my feelings,because i don't have a friends,i can't talk to any one but today i want say what hurted me,i wanna make you my best because i'm tired about..i'm so bad my dear cousin had stole my boyfriend that and the one i loved for my life,i lived with him for a 4 years but finaly he went to ask her for marriage and he ignored me..i can't survive with people that smiles front me and kills me like that..its so hard isn't??? i need your help to pass this moment..now your my only and my real friends
6 responses
@namiya (1718)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
hi saraaaaa, it really hurts to be treated like that but everything has a reason, sometimes things or situations we could not accept at the moment will turn out later to be blessings in disguise. i'm speaking from personal experience hence i know that it's not that easy but this is the time that you should be strong. cheer up you will realize in time that he's not worth your tears. strive to improve your craft and devote your time on things that will be more productive and beneficial to you. And most of all if you are a Christian, calling on God for strength, wisdom and guidance is a very great factor on moving on successfully.
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@saraaaa01 (33)
• Morocco
13 Sep 12
hi namiya,thank you to interset about me,i'll do what you adviced me,but im musilman and i know that the way of allah help me to pass all that thank you again,its nice from you
@keichan1412 (247)
• United States
12 Sep 12
It is really hard at first. Do you have any outside activites? If you have, try it. Explore more and meet new people. It will really drive you crazy thinking of that. It is also hard that you don't have friends. :( Why don't you talk to your mother? Your mother will definitely help you to come over your feelings towards your cousing and bf... Well for now, you may cry and pray for yourself and for them..
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@saraaaa01 (33)
• Morocco
13 Sep 12
yes its truly hard and i can't express how i feel about,the wrost im so closer and even my mom i can't tell her any thing because its so shamefull to talk about in our country so i need just a friend to help me to pass this moment;and im so happy to get from you
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
oh, what a hard thing to have happen. I'm so sorry. I can't believe that your boyfriend and your cousin would be so insensitive, it must be so hard for you because she's your cousin.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
19 Sep 12
It is hard to get over someone like that when they hurt you like that especially when you have been together for such a long time. And it may be hard to forgive your cousin for stealing your boyfriend, but eventually in time I'm sure that you will forgive her. Things will get better, but take your time and just remember that there is a rainbow that will appear later on. Just wait and see. You can come on here anytime to vent or just chat. I do all the time. Have a great day. 
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
I know how devastating it must be to be left by your boyfriend of four years. It is normal to get hurt, but also help yourself to move one. That kind of mine is not worth crying for. You will find your Mr. Right at the right time. Just enjoy being single for now.
@saraaaa01 (33)
• Morocco
12 Sep 12
thank you jenny1015 your message gave me to tears,i never receiv an advice for any one,i think its my fault to be alone and don't discover a world that why any hurt touch me inside,but you know what my boyfriend had hurt me more because i gave to him what i can't give it to any one,i gave to him my soul and you know what he gaved to me him and the person that i thought she can be fear for me
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
You gave your all and yet he didn't take good care of your relationship. it is his loss, not yours. do not waste your time on people who doesn' care about you. You are still young. live yoyr life to the fullest.
@saraaaa01 (33)
• Morocco
12 Sep 12
the problem that i could'n trust any one more,do you think that im not a normal person??
@Reneelao (223)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
yes, I do know that it is a very hard thing to do . . specially when you will be seeing them during family gatherings. at first it will be very tough.
but you have to move on.. Forgive and Forget is the only way to let this go.
make yourself available for meeting new friends, this will also help you forget.
Take care..
@saraaaa01 (33)
• Morocco
13 Sep 12
yes but i couldn't forget what i lived with him and even if i could forgive them
