Self-Centered People

These kind of people are everywhere. Just let them gossip and never show them you care or you are affected. The moment you show them that you are affected, then they will rejoice. but when they see you are not affected- that will make them feel mad and the last laugh is yours

Hello to you Abigael. I think you are so lucky to have your new job. I want to congratulate you for that. In a work place, that really happens. Some of the other employees would really keep their eyes on new employees. They would really talk about them, stare at them from head to feet, and so on. In your case, maybe they are still in the process of observing and knowing you. I think you shouldn't be too affected with that. I know it's a bit hard having a working environment like that but maybe, you just need to do your best in doing the tasks that you need to do. They are not your bosses anyway so you don't even have to please them. Just do the things you have to finish there. Just stay as professional as you are. Critics are everywhere so we must get used to them already. I hope soon, you would feel much comfortable in your work place. I hope in due time, they would get tired of criticizing you and they would just learn how to be friendly to you. I hope they would treat you right so you would really be happy doing your job. Keep on believing in yourself. Just enjoy doing your noble job. Happy myLotting. :)

I think you might be over thinking and analyzing and reacting to what you see in the office as you are new there, you simply feel that you are outcast and they are close with each other, hence when they talk or gossip you probably feel it was you they were talking about. I think it may not be the case all the time and you just misunderstand the situation. they could just be talking about anything under the sun and not even you. Do not think that they are up to no good and would want to do something to piss you off or anything related to that. Maybe you should try to get to know them first and try to be part of their circle. We know it is always hard for the new girl to blend in especially if those previously there is already / or has been together for quite a long time already. I am sure if they see your efforts in trying to be friends with them, you should just do fine and see that you are slowly becoming one of the people who they spend time chatting, and so on. =)

Don't mind them. Just let them be. Maybe they're envious of what you wear. Or maybe, they might just be talking about other things. Try to just focus on your job and stay professional. Don't let them get to you. You are there to work and that's it. AS long as you don't do anything wrong towards them, then you're good to go. Soon, hard work will pay off. Just wait and see.

I think you are just popular. Well, just be courteous all the time and don’t forget to smile always. This way, you office mates will realize that you are also a nice girl. Sometimes, other people acted that way because they wanted also to be notice. So you have to give them what they want. Like, making a positive comment on everybody but don’t overdo it. Or you could give them a part of your snack. They will think of you as a sweet little angel if you do that.

Hi there imAbigael, I think you should get used to it because there are people like that and you can not avoid them because at every work there are really people,who cannot just mind their own business.You should just work hard and keep away from people like that.But you should always be nice to them so that you can easily approach them when you need something to them.

Hi, ABigael. Congratulations on your new found work. Well, I must say just don't mind those people because first of all they don't know who you are. Just be true to yourself anyway you cannot please everyone. Cheers!

Just keep on doing your job and do your best. The best thing to get even with those kind of people is to show them that you're not affected by them, that you deserve whatever you have now and that no amount of prejudicial gossips will ruin your work. You're there anyway to work, not to expand your social circle or make friends, but it does help a hectic day at work to be bearable if you happen to become friends with some colleagues. I remember I used to have colleagues as well who can't help but talk about what I wear at work. Like one time, I wore this particular kind of stiletto shoes at work. And I hear the buzzing. After one week, we're all wearing the same kind of shoes. LOL!

Maybe they're just insecure on your skills and capability in your work. I think the best thing is to ignore them and focus on your work. Just keep yourself professional and restrict those people to get near you. lol :D Congratulations on your new work. Good luck. Be a strong woman. :)