In love one may face the problems

@sriroshan (2585)
India
September 12, 2012 10:37am CST
When in love there are always some or other problems that may makes the lover to lead their life happily. It is very few lover who do not have to face any hindrances or problem in their love. But it is said those who face the problems in their life they learn to fight later in their life and lead the happy life after their marriage.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
Lovers will not discover their partner's other traits if there will be no misunderstanding or quarrels. It's part of how love grows between the couple. So when one falls in love, she/he should be ready for the problems that naturally comes with it.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
Yes fighting each other is very much common and solving the problem amicably will the good solution for the same.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
Well when lovers quarrel, they learn how to deal with each other next time. And when they are again in good terms, their love deepens.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
13 Sep 12
Everything may have different aspect that is good or bad. So when we are happy and we shall also to think about the bad things. This really needs our patience to deal with problems and also trust and understanding between each other. I think things can be solved.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
When you really love your partner then automatically you understand your partner and then accordingly you take your steps to resolved if any problems comes up.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
yes, of course in any relationship love, friendship, family... it is never perfect and misunderstanding may still happen. :D Important in any relationship is that when there are things that bothers both of you, you both should work it out, talk about it, clear things and misunderstandings... i think as long as there is love - everything will be settled, everything can be cleared, and settled by those involved - of course all problems are small compared to the lack of love and will and concern... and if the issue is cheating then i can say this is probably not one of those that can be easily resolved.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
Misunderstanding, fight is very much common in any relationship that I understand but it is our duty to solve them without harming or hurting other person emotion.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 12
Life is always full of problems. What makes it different is the way we deal with the problems. Some people deal with it too seriously while some people deal with the problems they face easily. So, no matter in love, work, friendship, and all those things in life, we will find things that called "problems". When those things come, it comes back to us. It comes back to us on how we deal with the problems coming.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
You are right life is full of problem and it is we who have to tackle them and try to solve them as much as possible. And surely when we try to solve the problem it will be solved it may be anything that pertaining to our life.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
12 Sep 12
Hey thanks for such a lovely topic. yes u are absolutely right. The one u love the most is the one you fight the most also. every relationship on earth goes through ups and downs and we need to be stable and firm enough to understand each and every situation during this term and should support our partner in overcoming such challenges then only our relation becomes more and more stronger with time. What say?
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
You are correct more we fight with each other when in relationship on small small issues more solution we get to rectify our mistake. After all there are always the solution for any problem in our life but it is we who have to find it out.
12 Sep 12
hey, Don't you think if someone fights too much they may develope misunderstanding and may get irritated with eachother. When you fight often , you realise unintentionally that either there is no trust in realtionship or you can't work out a smooth life later, I think its better to avoid fighting with a lover, its better to negotiate then putting yourself into fight.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
If you two have the misunderstanding then it is sure that you two may fight with each other. Better try to solve any misunderstanding if you have any with each other before your relationship reach to the point of breakdown
• India
14 Sep 12
In love, you would face problems than anywhere else because it is all about expectations. You unknowingly expect your partner to care as much as you care them. If that is absent, initially it starts with disappointment which later gets into fights and separation.
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Oh, I agree with you.We can't avoid having arguments when we are in a relationship and even if we are already married.When we were still in a relationship,we seldom fought about something.When we got married,problems arose and still arising.We have to settle those arguments and they will make our relationships better as we are going to know each other better.Even married couples experience these problems.I admire those who know what to do.They are willing to change themselves to become better people. :)
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
You are correct in this regards. And when we have the understandable life partner then everything goes smooth in life and our relationship become enjoyable.
• Indonesia
12 Sep 12
there is no life without problem, sometimes problem is a way to became a better quality of life, once u solve your problem u become a strongger
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Problem/s is always around like a shadow in every relationships. Not all problems in a relationship are solved and ended up with a good result. Some relationships are destroyed by trials and problems while some become stronger than ever.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Sep 12
You are correct there are so many such incidence even I have seen where love has become more powerful then any obstacle that has come in their life.
• Portugal
13 Sep 12
a love story without problems is impossible. cause there will be always some things on the way. its normal and is good that problems exist. the worse is when everything is too perfect. then this means that something is wrong. if im with a guy we always disagree with some things and sometimes there are people that appear to test us. love has always issues but with a true love they always can be solved.