Haunted by a past.
By Lingling89
@Lingling89 (88)
Philippines
September 12, 2012 1:24pm CST
I'm constantly dreaming of an ex-boyfriend. It has been for a year, there is not a month I think I haven't dreamed of him even once by then. I don't know why, I wasn't even thinking of him that often, he just comes to my dreams every now and then that I bothers me a bit already. It has been almost 3 years since we broke up. It wasn't a good break-up and really a very hard one for him that time. I can remember how he pleaded very hard to make things work but I just can't do it anymore with what he had done wrong to me. Though until now I'm triggered by my conscience of leaving someone who I know really loved me so much. I felt I was his life back then because by the time I left him, he returned to his bad vices. Dreaming of him every now and then makes me trigger of my conscience too. We had not had communications since then for he just vanished even in facebook. I tried reconciling with him but I stopped trying now. What does this dreams mean? Is it because of my conscience of my past? Is it true when you dream of someone they are thinking of you?
7 responses
@marilyninocencio (116)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
Probably, you are also guilty of what happened to your ex-boyfriend that's why you keep on dreaming about him. It is also possible that he is still thinking about you until now. If you have a way, try to keep in touch with him and apologize for what happened and maybe you can be good friends now. Good luck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
That answers your question. You still feel guilty of leaving your boyfriend that is why you still keep on dreaming about him. I think that is really true coz I think I had the same experience with my ex boyfriend whom I left without really telling him exactly what were my reasons for leaving him.
I think you just need to forgive yourself for doing it coz after all it is just the right thing for you to do at that time. It would be bad staying with him if you no longer love him, right? You were just honest with your feelings and there was no other way to do it but tell him to end the relationship.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Sep 12
Do you know if your ex-boyfriend is still alive? If he is alive maybe you just need closure. Your dreams are the things we try to lack away that is not resolved . So you may saying you want to move on but you are really not over you ex.
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
It seems that you still have unresolved issues with him. Must be your conscience too or you still have that concern for him. Though you are not thinking of him, subconsciously you still wonder how he is doing in life.
It's not true that people you dream about are thinking of you.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
12 Sep 12
Well i can understand the pain u must be undergoing ever since u broke up with your boyfriend. But i think it is very much difficult to forget about the past especially if u have had a bad relationship as it always haunt u, no matter how hard u try to forget it. All i can say is try hard to forget everything, pray God that he never puts u into such relationships in the future and that think that u are going to live a new life from tomorrow itself.
What say?
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
If he is thinking about you too?...that I do not know.
I am not a dream wiz, but who knows, maybe he is thinking about you.
Or maybe he did remember you or maybe he is also haunted by the past.
Sometimes there are dreams that we do not understand and made us wonder.
Then...when we almost forget about it, that's the time we got the answer.
