THE worst woman "if i raised them..."

@monkmano (585)
Canada
September 12, 2012 11:29pm CST
first she cheated with my dad for a year. one christmas he came home at 8am and my mom thought he was dead in a ditch somewhere. she talks about my mom in terrible ways, she said if she had raised us we wouldn't be so horrible. horrible!? we're both hard working straight A students at two of canada's best uni's. there is so much more but today she is trying to blackmail my mom into them not having to pay $200. she did this by writing an email as my dad threatening to withhold scholarship info that HE HAD ALREADY GIVEN MY SISTER! she has been writing emails as him for so long and now we have some hard evidence this woman really gets me going, i swore to never deal with her again and i have to keep that promise its hard lately i want to go/call and scream.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
Are you trying to mean that the woman is the present one of your dad. And that your mom is already separated from your dad. Well, if that is the case, that woman is just jealous that your dad is giving his attention to both of you and your sister. You should always assert your right to your dad as his children.
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@monkmano (585)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
she is currently with him yes, but he chose her over us. my dad does not call or care about his daughters he's essentially controlled by this woman this is the kind of man he is.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
I am sorry to hear that my friend. I hope sooner or later your father's eyes will be opened so he will not be that controlled by that other woman.
@kris3rdE (156)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
I'm sorry to hear that. Just ignore her and take care of your mom and sister.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
So this woman still is your dad's other woman? or your parents have already separated because of her? I wonder how you still are in contact with this woman?! i would make sure she lives hell and worst than that if i was to be in contact with her, believe me i would never have allowed such a person mock my mother - the woman who has to endure all the shame your dad brought with this woman! Oh geesh, i'd swear if she is my step mother i would really have to get my hands on her! he he i am so angry, mad right now because my dad too had another woman but my parents separated and this woman never contacted us as she was afraid of us... haha
@monkmano (585)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
well my parents have been separated for 3 years and are going through a nasty divorce right now, this is how she is interfering it should just be between the 2 and sometimes kids. i think she is afraid of me, but i keep my mouth shut id defend my mother to the end of the earth but she doesnt want that.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
13 Sep 12
monkmano, dear, you are going through an extremely difficult time. Your mother has given you very good advice about "the best revenge is to live...." And that's what you will do. Study hard, make your mom proud. I'm sure she is already proud of you and your sister. And your mother has a good man to look after her and help you. I know it's difficult at best to try to get someone's love and affection all your life, just to be ignored. Consider the source. It may be hard because he's your father, but some people are just low life's. That's the way they are. I'm sorry. You seem to be such a dear young adult, I wish I could put my arm around you and make you feel a little better. But you already have a mom. I felt so bad when I read that you were crying while writing this. That woman is worthless. She is worse than a swamp donkey. I know you would like to get your hands on her but, please, don't filthy yourself. Are you starting to feel just a little better? Mylot is a good place to come and vent. Come here any time. And you even get paid for it! And there are people here 24/7 so the chances are good somebody will talk to you. Study hard and get a good job. I know you will. And make many friends in mylot!
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
13 Sep 12
Oh that is some bad woman. In many households this is happening today and it is becoming very common. I would say that she is very jealous of your mother and is scared that she will lose your dad one day. Be good to your dad and one day he will realize his mistake. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@monkmano (585)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
yes perhaps she feels threatened but there is no need for her to! moms boyfriend is so great and shes happy. her bf is even going to teach me to golf something my dad always promised to do. i dont have hope he'll ever realize the kids importance as i write this i have started crying because i always worked so hard for my dads affection growing up and the final result is the feeling that he gives me no though thank you, and i hope you have a good day too :)
13 Sep 12
that woman is horrible, she should be contented that your dad is already with her, and just leave you guys alone. just study hard and look for a good work to prove them that you don't need your dad to live. the woman was just too jealous that your dad look for you again and was just threatened that He will leave her. just keep the emails coming and ignore, it wont do good to you, she just want to ruin your relationship with your dad. good luck. God bless you
@monkmano (585)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
thank you, i will vent it out on mylot best to do rather than on a person! i try to do the best i can for me but there is still resentment and anger there im constantly learning how to live my life the best mom says the best revenge is to live and be happy :)