what will you do if you are already married then an ex is coming back???
By mhilkz13
@mhilkz13 (26)
Philippines
10 responses
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
Uhmm.. We might have different views of what is wrong and right but, let's think if you are in the shoe of the person whom has betrayed of, would you like to be in that situation? Would it be fair for him? In every action we make there are circumstances to face.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
I will tell my ex that I am happily married and I am not interested with him anymore.
I will tell him that, our time is over and I have found a new man who love me and I will love for the rest of my life.
@rsa101 (38126)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Why would you still entertain him/her to your life. When you got married you already committed to the person you were with for life. That is a sacred vow you both have to keep.
Ex will remain as ex forever and I do not think it is right to welcome him back to your life again just to ruin your family and the name you have right now.
I will agree with many of the posters above to avoid you and your ex to meet again since there is only one thing that could happen here one might got tempted to give in to enliven their past relationship which I think should not be because it is immoral and it is unfair the the husband/wife in this case.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Sep 12
A lot of people will accept to be secret lover so they can ave the best of both world and also wreck your marriage in the process . Ex should be ex out of your life and should not be coming around with things like that .
If I got married I should be in love so no one else should matter because you have been there and done that . That is how I feel .
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
I am already happily married for almost 7 years and when my ex want's to comes back then i will just tell him that he has no space in my life and he is already part of my past means I will never accept him no matter what. The reason why i broke up with him because i am not happy with him and he cheated on me and i think he has no reason to talk or show up to me whatever his reasons are.
@keichan1412 (247)
• United States
13 Sep 12
Ignore your ex. Frist, Pray that your ex shouldn't hinder the relationship between you and your husband. You already have a family and you must prioritize your family before anyone else.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
We all know that married people should work out their relationships, not think of getting back with an ex! why would you marry the person when you do not love him or her enough that you are thinking of getting back with your ex!!! I think you should learn to let go, and value your relationship with your partner right now.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
13 Sep 12
Since you've already married and that's serious for every people, your ex has already coming back but this person we indeed had missed. So i believe in fate and this is what had happened. I will really stick to my husband and that's no doubt.Good luck.
@blinjk (617)
• United States
13 Sep 12
If you are married,then you should forget your ex because it is not right to see your ex anymore.Your ex is past already so if you love your family you would not do anything to harm them.Do not ever entertain your ex if he or she wants you back.Just focus on your family. A past relationship is something that you should really forget when you are already married.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
13 Sep 12
Wow,that relationship is a little sensitive,so it's no way to be friends.
You should tell him/her your situation,and show your thoughts directly.
If necessary,you can treat him/her as a stranger and keep away from him/her.
Just for your information.