is being fat,voluptiuos,or so called being chubby a hindrance of having a lover?

Not because one is fat, she will not be able to find a lover anymore. As long as some men will be looking for a kind hearted woman, those chubby ones have the chance, if they are kind hearted.

I don't think that the looks has something to do with love. If the person truly love someone it doesn't matter how she/she looks like. Being fat is not a hindrance. Love is not all about physical appearance but feelings.

No matter how fat or thin a person looks, it shouldn't matter. If you love him/her, that is all that matters.

Hi, The term is really misleading for there are big women who can be considered sexy and attractive and there are small ones that don't merit a second look at all. It all depends upon one's style on how she carry herself to look attractive. In fact most men prefer the heavier type, being able to carry the reproductive functions well.

Some guys actually like girls with curves.

Not really, sometimes its just a test of time. Love does not choose any size or shape. What matters most is the personality. Yes, slim women are attractive because of what media is exposing but once you prove them that there is no difference in love when it comes to size, you will be confident expressing yourself and you can easily attract men/women. It's the whole package by the way...

If you are looking for a love at first sight, it might not happening. But believe me when those guys do fall in love, it remains for long long time. Well you can guess, there are very few long enduring relationships among beautiful pairs. Its when you do have some limitations, you are ready for compromises and then life get beautiful.

It depends on the personality I guess. If you are thinking that your being chubby is preventing you from getting a lover then I guess that is what you will be getting. I know some people prefer chubby girls as well so there is always hope that one chubby girl can find someone to love someday.

I don't believe a word of that. It all depends on where you live, since there are plenty of cultures where being skinny/slim is a sign of poorness and being unhealthy. Well in the case of my husband that's true. Personally I can't say fat people are more ugly or less attractive. To be honest I mostly find skinny people looking ugly and way earlier old (skin) as those who are not. This besides of very frequently the unhappy face and bones sticking out everywhere. Not really nice to hug a bag with bones but I assume this is a personal matter of taste.

yeah being fat hinders in finding a life partner or lover alot. boys don't want fat girls and girls don't want fat boys and it is very true. I know many fat people who can't find a lover. And some boys don't like very skinny girls as well. I think being of medium size is the best. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.