Babies are truly an angel

Thats true though sometimes feel guilty and angry coz she never meet her father father even until now though i also want her to have a father figure for her to call her own father to make her more complete as a person, though sometimes im thinking its better this way than to let her see her father who left us and never even bother to help us even when she was hospitalized knowing that her father have a lot of money.

Yes we become their wings and that without us they cant fly high, they cant build their dreams without us helping them by also giving them education as of course they cant just go study at the age of 4 without us helping them to prepare for school and pay for their school fees. Where the one who mold them so whoever they are sometimes depending to he parents also.

Thank you, though i need to be strong for her even if sometimes i already feel so weak and tired, just a thought of her makes me strong and fight for life no matter how hard it is, as if there's someone who can give her all the things she need is me and not to ask from someone else. Its my duty and obligation as a mother and a true mother will fight until the end for their child sake.

Yes that's true though i guess grand child is more amazing than our own child right? that's what i normally heard from my mother if shes talking to her friends about their kids, they said they are more happy and excited to their grand children than their child, of course they are happy with their child but its more amazing to have grand children, i also heard that sometimes they hurt their kids but they cant do it with their grand children.

Yes same with her, if im so tired and she want me to held her in my arms i am always complaining to her that shes already heavy then shy just cry and dont want to let go so i just ask her to kiss me a lot so i will not be tired and so she kissed me a lot and hug me then i just laugh.

You mean you were able to realize that your pregnant during trimester? though they move inside even as early as 3 months right and you didn't notice it? That was amazing as i manage to know that i was pregnant as early as 2 weeks coz im regular with my menstruation and i was also excited that time to know if im pregnant though during that time we are still happy together with the guy though he just change and left during my 3rd months.

Yes your right, no matter how weak we are sometimes but through them we become a warrior and a fighter willing to do things for them, their hugs and kiss makes me feel so comfortable and at peace specially if shes around with me and i become so paranoid if shes not with me just like now that shes at the province with my mother having vacation, i cant stay with them for long coz i have work here and she cant stay with me coz no one will take care of her in here since its too expensive to get nanny here.

My family didn't pushed me away in fact they helped me a lot during my pregnancy. My ex didn't left me knowing i was pregnant in fact we are both happy, there was things happened between us to exempt our child that makes us hated each others. Some guys left their partner for the fact that they cant handle the responsibilities and not because they don't love their kids as in fact sooner or later they even tried to reunited with their kids specially if they already financially stable. I didn't know anyone scolded a pregnant woman as in fact if we saw a pregnant lady in the bus, train or in any places we normally offer them a sit. My family didn't ruin my life in fact we become more close to each other, me and my ex never had a family in the first place coz he was only my bf then and it was my fault why he left us without a word and not because of our baby. I didn't say my family dump me did i say it? or if someone else dump there daughter who got pregnant then they are too narrow minded, though they might dump there daughter but not the baby inside of here as in fact once their daughter give birth the baby becomes the way for them to accept their daughter back. Its not the baby the some people hated us but the person alone and not the baby. Its the baby become the messenger for love if you didn't believe it then im pity for you. Only a heartless person doesn't feel anything with their baby, those are too selfish and narrow minded.

Yes your right, babies are messenger of love and probably god sent them to give love to us, one good example of this are those who have parents who dislike their children's relationship with the other half and to the point of hating them though if they saw their grand daughter they lost their hate to their child favor of the baby.

Thank you, looking at baby's face makes our heart melt and i guess only selfish and heartless mother can abandoned their kids or maybe due to they forced to do it without other choice but it doesn't mean their baby is nothing to them. Sometimes if we heard those mother who give out their kids for adoption it doesn't mean they don't love them as in fact they might just don't want to see them suffering from poverty as they will rather sacrifice their love as a mother only to see their kids happy and in good health and in good life and for them its already enough. One time when my baby was hospitalized in 2 consecutive months that we already give out all our money and my mother told me to go and ask for help to her father and i almost do it but i remember him told me that i should give my baby to him if i ever ask help from him, i almost give her up to him just to let her live though i still manage to pray a lot and talk to my baby to fight if she doesn't want to loss her me and that no matter we will stay together until she manage to stand on her own. and i was so lucky coz after few days she got well without his father's help. I know it wasn't me whose brave enough and strong enough but also my baby.

Thanks, though if you already have your own child im sure you will love i more as if you fall in love a hundred time and that your day will not be complete without seeing them.