I feel so lonely

I am a gal....and yes, i am a lonely gal now... yeah, i need your big hug now...Could you give me now?

You remember that song from Hook (the movie with Robin Williams, Dustin Hoffman & Bob Hoskins, about a grown-up Peter Pan going back to Neverland), that Peter's daughter sings: "When You're Alone"? If your computer's speakers work, you can "Search the Web" for it and listen to it where you find it. But I want to remember the lyrics here (it was one of the first songs I ever sang solo in front of an audience): It starts out with a cool, kinda music-box piano-part, "dee-dee, dee-dee, deedle-dee, dee-dee, dee-dee, deedle-dee," then the words start over that, "When you're all a-lone, far a-way from home, there's a gift the an-gels send---When You're A-lone. "Ev-ry day must end, but the night's our friend. An-gels al-ways send a star, When You're A-lone. "At night when I'm a-lone, I lie a-wake and won-der Which of them be-longs to me. Which one, I won-der. "And an-y star I choose Watch-es o-ver me. So I know I'm not a-lone, when I'm here on my own. Is-n't that a won-der? When you're a-lone, You're not a-lone---Not Real-ly A-lone. "The stars are all my friends `Til the night-time ends. So I know I'm not a-lone, when I'm here on my own. Is-n't that a won-der? When you're a-lone, You're not a-looooooooooooooooooooooooooone "Not Real-ly Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa-looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooone. (Ends with the music-box piano-part and a nice closing-chord)" So the closest I can give you is just to have you hug a pillow and listen to that song in your head.

I listen to it on youtube, it is such a nice song. But i am listening it in my office, no pillow to hug in here. I will save it to my cellphone and listen it when i am at home... Thank you so much mythociate, you are so warm...

Thank you for your caring...yeah, you are right, there are many mylotters in here and i can chat with like right now i am writing to you. Well, i wish i know a reason why i am like this, because of a changing seasons or because of many things i have to think of, etc... I will try to do something else to make me get out of this mood soon.

I met friends for coffee meeting and then shopping yesterday. I feel much better today... Ah, you remind me, i should to exercises today..

Today is a new day, here is to hoping you're feeling great! If you're not perhaps try some exercise, that will help me from time to time.

sometimes i feel lonely too but my project avoid me not to feel lonely in a long time but now i feel lonely in the saturday night.. what a pity

good suggestion... you are so kind... so do you guarantee when we have a couple, it means we are not lonely anymore?? iam still thingking

Yeah, you maybe right, ifa225. I need to light up my life.... adhyz82, it is time for you to have a girlfriend. i am very sure that you won't be lonely in the Saturday night anymore.

i do my test but friday is the announcement for the second stage of my test.. i worry about the result But Let God helps me... so maybe you had found another interesting man?? iam curious about it btw, iam lonely too tonight..but it was okay

sigh, not yet, i am single still... You feel lonely too, why? what did you think and then you was like that?

Oh, you are back? how is your test? umh, you always tell me that i miss him, hix...

wow..so there is a new man in ryanong heart?? wow...It`s good.. She can smile because of new man

your ex boy will cry for you...meet him before he cries because can`t see you.. maybe he is afraid you will become K-pop star and forget him

No, not about that guy. I don't even think any thing about my trip yet since i bought tickets and booked hotel. You maybe right, there are many things that might block my mind and i feel like that. Or maybe because of season changing..i don't know exactly because i still eat and sleep well, just in daytime, i couldn't focus on anything, even writing on mylot. Last night my ex made a phone call to me and he wants to meet me in person for chatting in Oct, I feel pity a bit when hearing his voice at late time like that...I told him he can come to hanoi to meet me before Oct 26. after that i am not sure i am in hanoi because i go to thailand and maybe go to korea immediately after that. he said he will arrange to buy tickets for it soon Well, i don't know what will i say to him also...

rando, welcome to mylot if you feel alone, come to mylot and join with many hot discussion you can choose the topic about love, soccer or about Indonesia it will be yours.. I think if you are Indonesian, you can pick up too Indonesian interest...

Thank you for your advices, Adhyz. I don't know much about Indonesia yet then i have to wait till i travel to there, i can join more Indonesian interest. Currently i have some guys like you to chat everyday, i am happy with it.

Thank you for you advices... I know we all may get this problem sometime...i tried to listen to music, watch movies, shopping, but whenever i wake up, that mood is back and i am not active to do anything...i don't know what happens to me, i have a feeling that i am sick but physically i am not sick, i can eat and sleep well.. yeah, mylotters are very friendly and kind, i hope with a time, you will have many new friends in here.

I think you are over-stress until your mood had changed. Try to take some time off from your usual work and relax. I am sure after a few days you will be fine again...

Thank you, i did meet friends and then went shopping yesterday, i feel better today...

I don't know why, my mood has been being like that for a week and i couldn't do anything...i tried to listen to music, watch movies, blah blah..but my mood is not better in daytime. Or am I stress?

Yeah, sometime we can avoid lonely feeling. I guess sometime you are in this mood also. You are right, if we keep be busy, we have no time for being lonely anymore. I am doing like that... I wish you a nice day!!!

I never take a nap in daytime except i am sick...i try to wash clothes or just window shopping to watch people in department stores... To be honest, i don't want to be single more...

Thank you so much for your advice. yeah,if think back carefully i have many things to think...and many things happened recently..that's why my mood like that. I hope i can pass this soon.

Yeah, you are right, i should not think too much...It is my problem...i will try to be busy whole day and then sleeping only, don't have time for thinking anymore. yesterday i did shopping and then met friends for coffee meeting. I went to sleep straightly. This morning i feel much better than yesterday...

Yeah, you are right, women are afraid of loneliness and need someone to notice and appreciate them. I am one of them..that's why i feel lonely sometime when i have no one around me. Well, right now i am quite busy with writing thesis so that i have no time to think about anything else, lonely feeling is gone also, but i know it may go back to me one day.

or being active here.. maybe with mylot, we can reduce the lonelines...maybe..

Erm, maybe you are right, i like watching movies or just drink coffee and chatting with friends. Well, tomorrow i will meet a friend and then play bowling, i hope i am fine back..because even now, i feel not ok at all, i am not who i am as usual now...

Also, i found something online that may help you increase your self confidence.. http://tinyurl.com/9h3shxf

I don't know exactly what it is, just feel like that..something is not right with my mind, my soul and i have a feeling as if i am sick but in fact i am not sick, i can eat and sleep well...

iam alone here ryanong where are you??

hhihi, you are right. I like to play bowling also...

huh? today you are lonely adhyz? why?

Thank you for your advices. No, i am single now and it is not a right time for being in love yet...i want to chat with some guys but no one chat with me on YM now, all guys are busy...Sigh, then i am a bit busy and can't chat, many guys wanna chat with me but now, no one... I will go home early today and then i may go shopping..i hope i don't feel alone anymore..

oh, it is a changing season in here too. today it is cold and i guess Summer is gone already. I don't know what is exactly a reason to make me feel lonely...thank for your hug, i want to hug you one time more...

yeah, i am watching THE X FACTOR USA on youtube now, i hope my lonely feeling is gone soon... In fact i am like this for a week but in the beginning i thought that it might be gone soon but till today, it is still here...i don't understand myself... I wish you a nice day too!!

Thank you. yeah, you are right, there are many mylotters in here... in fact i couldn't focus on everything for a week and i really hope when i speak out on mylot or chatting with someone, even though a topic is not related to my problem but it makes me feel better and lonely feeling will be gone soon.

Yeah i know life goes up and down so that we can't laugh whole day and we won't be sad whole day too. I will go home soon and do shopping, i have no mood for working also.. Thank you for your kindness..

Thank you so much for your caring. Yeah, my mind is empty but it is not empty, something inside makes me feel uncomfortable and i can't release it out. I will go home early or go shopping today, i want to shout out loud, i want...i should do something...OMG, i don't want to be like right now...