Should I forgive him?
By cmy1004f
@cmy1004f (381)
China
September 14, 2012 7:26am CST
Do you agree people who hurt you most always the most pro-people of you? To me, my elder brother let understand this point completely.
Both of them hurt me and mum very hart for their girl friend, for make that two women happy one let his mother, his younger sister and his son live in a very small room only about 10 square meters! floors is high of here, and no elevator. Bathroom with poor ventilation, sweat even more than before washing out after bath, even if the ventilation equairpments is instlled or not improve.
But now he was sick and seems to more and more serious, then should I forgive his previous wrong?
4 responses
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Sep 12
I dont quite understand what you are saying . I think you should forgive him if you feel to . It is always a relive when you forgive others but you dont have to forget .
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@cmy1004f (381)
• China
15 Sep 12
I konw what you said is right of course, perhaps I always the kind of hard to forget sad things, but as you say we are always relive, I will try my best to accept him as soon as possible.
On the other hand, I am not sure the reason for you don't quite understand what I said, if for I don't say the thing clearly, that I am sorry that it always my family problem, not good to say too clearly; if it is about the grammar mistake, I will spend more time to improvement.
Thanks for respond.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
He is still your brother. Let love flow through your heart and not anger. This is the time that your brother needs you most.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Yes. Siblings should stick with one another no matter what.
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Forgiveness is the only key factor to build harmonious relationship. Time will heal but to forgive is the first step to make all wounds heal.
We know how to forgive other people how much more to our own families? especially our mother and our brother!
Let me think of their previous wrong? Is that a hindrance to our unforgiveness?
How big is that wrong that we cannot forget? Past is always be a past.
We can never live on the past but instead move towards present. If something is wrong with our present then seek for the solution and do not look back by our past. It will only creates discouragement and bitterness not unless if that PAST we had will give us encouragement and JOY. But if not, then there is no reason to keep on recalling and reminishing. There is so much ahead to keep on learning and dealing.
Enjoy !!!
@cmy1004f (381)
• China
15 Sep 12
Yes, it is not easy to became family together. There is a good choice that forget the relatives' fault only keep their good thing in our mind. Since we have the fate to be family, we should cherish. But it is difficult to forgive them sometimes because they are relatives, the closest people to us. Althought things had been pasted, we still care about, even if it will let us regret in the future.
Now I am try my best to forget, after all I want to forgive him and mend fences of each.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
He is still your brother after all. I understand the pain he has caused you and your mom, but this is the time that you can prove to him that nobody else could love him more than his family. If you can't do it out of forgiveness then you can take care of him as a revenge. It will make him realize that he has to give you more importance than any other people.
My mother had a hard time with his siblings before but she always had a good heart to take care of them all the time and saving them in their financial problems.
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@cmy1004f (381)
• China
15 Sep 12
Mum said that could be look as the punish to him from God, so we can ignore what he had bee done before. Sometimes I hope can be more generous, just as mum. Till now, I only can give him a little words for greetings when he come. I hope our relative can be better later, after all, he know he was wrong now, and his sick is more and more serious than cannot go to work.
