after the fight with your spouse, how long you do to take to settle the matter ?

All people commit mistakes that is why a simple misunderstanding with the spouse should be settled after both of you have already cooled off your temper.I can start the conversation by accepting that I am just human just like her sometimes could make a mistake,then I try to make my solutions work by suggesting we could have a small talk at the cooler place like the going to a beach resort and talk our problem there so that the quarrel could be solve right away.I will bring here a bouquet of flowers,and some goodies to make her at ease in my presence.After our talks end,the problem of misunderstandings was resolve and you know we have a sweet love making after that scenario.Is'nt that a sweet ending?

Hi Riya! We also just can not keep quite for a long period, after we had an argument on some issue. I believe in making peace rather than ego come in my way. I do not mind admitting my mistakes or faults because I know that no one is infalliable and no one is perfect. Your approach of accommodating your hubby and vice versa is appreciable.

Have been married for almost 6 years now. Me and my wife are quite opposite of each other. I have a short term memory when it comes to any disagreement or fight (wait, I dont fight with anyone and am a peaceful person, so please ignore the fight and we continue with disagreements)... We have many disagreements on almost everything because we are opposite of each other. I always stand with one benefit - my short term memory which helps me forget the disagreements quite soon. So I am back to normal me say in about 5 - 10 minutes and at times (yes there have been such times) when I would get back to normal even when the disagreement was continuing and we were supposed to be discussing on our disagreement and this really helps in keeping the time off to the lowest possible

Well all I have to do is cry and then all would be forgiven and he would admit it was his fault and he would do nice hints for me. Once he even said that men act like men and he can't help being that way....but that worked for the first 3 years and then it didn't work anymore ;) Now when we get into fights I either start breaking things or I go shopping and use his money. When he doesn't want me doing that he'll go one to say that he's sorry and hell hug me till I relent! Which can be annoying at times! Every now and then I'll tell him that he's annoying me and I leave the house and walk or ride my bike to cool off. Like today he had trouble with a password and he tried everything but nothing worked. I suggested he call costumer support and he said I don't wanna call the f'n ppl and I said I would so I did and got the problem resolved within seconds! Men! You are right when you said at the end of the day it's all good. I think some ppl men and women alike tend to hold grudges than others.

hi riyauro! Well it really depends on the reason why we fight. The longest time that we didn't talk is 2 weeks. The reason why we fight "MONEY". Lol

ever since we were boyfriend and girlfriend our fight ends up in one day.. we usually find the right solution by talking and to whom mistakes are committed if any of the two of us commit that mistakes.. but if its in the pick of our fight and no one admit the mistake we stop talking and take an our not talking.. after a while if we are ready to talk and listen to each other then we started talking again and if we find out if his fault or mine we end it up saying sorry and iloveyou.:-)

I think that it is very important to sort things out when you have arguments with people, otherwise the same issues just go over and over in your head and they end up being even more of an issue than they had to be in the first place. I always try to make sure that we have sorted out our arguments before the end of the day, because if the issues carry on into the next day then things always feel a lot worse and it is a lot harder for the first person to make a move to try and change things. I would always be careful in situations because you don't want to ruin a relationship over something that shouldn't have even been an issue.

I am not in a relationship right now, but I remember that when I was still with my ex girlfriend, we fought sometimes too. Sometimes, we didn't call each other for a day, and the longest one is for a week. Usually I have to send her a text message to ask her forgiveness. When we were broke up, we were friendly though, not much of fight.

We don't go for fight or anything, if anything happens inappropriate, normally I used to keep quite and won't talk much and also I won't feel go for such incidents also. Mostly we have good relations and I don't even I have such incidents in the long 16-17 years of time. Any way, as long as it is life and we all are having our own interests and opinions and it is quite common to have different opinions and mis-matches within the ideas. So, people won't take it is as so serious and the next moment of our thoughts will minimise the impacts. Without such small petty fights, what is the life, right?

That depends on what kind of issue lead us to a fight. If it is just because of petty things, just a few minutes after, then we are okay. But if we have one huge fight, it sometimes lasts for a day or two.

I think that for some couples the longer that they have been together the longer they can go without talking to one another. My husband and I usually don't talk for a some time if we are upset about something. It usually is a day or so. We still would talk to one another about everyday things but the atmosphere is different as one or the other is still upset about whatever happened.

We usually settle the things before the day ends. It is not good to bed without settling any disagreements.

Fortunately I have been among the couples who never quarrel.Believe me,we don't know how it feels not to be on talking terms with each other.Not that we have the same opinions on various issues of life,but we have learned how to live peacefully with differences.Whenever we have a difference of opinion,we always try to see the concerned issue with each other's view points and thus reach a common conclusion.You may say,we can't of living without each other.

Just a couple of hours lol! We can't stay mad at each other for long, and we definitely can't just stop talking to each other. We just needed some time to calm down and cool it off. Just because we have arguments doesn't mean we don't love each other anymore. We just disagree, because even though we're already married, we're still two different people.