lucky I"m in love with my best friend

You are the one who is at the lost now that your best friend had a girlfriend.You did not take seriously all his actions suggesting he not only likes you but he truly love you.You did not noticed his seriousness towards you.You could say you were lucky because he loves you,but are you in love with him?How can you tell him now that he has a girlfriend and they are going great as you say.Make him tell you if you are still in his heart,which is very hard to do now,but if you love him,then make him believe that you,too,have also love him,but just shy to tell him because you are best of friends.I think he could break the girl no matter what because I know he has more love in you than the other girl,and that he just let you know he has found a new girl for him because you did not notice him,so that you will try to make him believe he has also some part in your heart.I wish you could take his heart back to love you even more.

Yes, I also have a friend which is a girl and we understand each other very well. We were colleagues in high school, and she has had some crush on me back then, but I didn't wanted to have any relationship with nobody back then, so I told her that I don't want to disappoint her, so we remained friends and we are still friends. Now, she is engaged with another guy and I am really happy for her. By the way, do you think that if a girl looks at you as a good friend for a time, things cannot change? I mean, can a friendship between a a girl and a guy become something more serious as time passes by?

If he said those words to you, most probably they were true. but he just doesn't have the nerves to tell it to you personally maybe bevause he fears of losing you. if he has a girlfriend now maybe he just had her to mask his feelings towards you.

Hi swissheart. Maybe he did love you but was afraid to compromise the friendship so he just jokingly said it. Maybe it was his last act of desperation. Maybe if you had responded with yes he would have pursued you. But since you were lost for words he must have thought you weren't interested in him and moved on. I think it that for whatever reason, it is a blessing in disguise though as friendship is better than a romantic relationship as not all romantic relationships ends well.

Do you mean,he has another girl as his girlfriend?If yes,then I wonder how did he claimed to love you?Had he loved you,then he would not have compromised on another girl.In my opinion,he is not serious about you.Otherwise he would have keep trying to make you his only girlfriend.He could not even think of making another girl his girlfriend.Leave him.

Oh ho, I think he was joking with you. It is bad what he did, he made you fall for him if I am not wrong and then he gets serious with another girl. it is like crazy. How are you dealing with it. But your topic is suggesting something else that it is like a happy happy situation. also you said that lucky, may I ask why lucky???

I think friendship between a man and a woman is quite possible. But their can be moments when it turn to love. I think you friend called you at such a moment. may be later he felt it was not proper and so tried to act in a proper manner. Anyways I am sure he had a feeling for you then. But now he must have moved on.

I have had the experience of being in love with my best friend before, and I have to say that it isn't something that I would really want to be repeating any time soon because of the fact that he didn't like me and I found myself convincing himself that if I changed, I would be able to make him like me as more than a friend. I wasted almost four years of my life believing that this could be the case, so I was single for all that time when I probably missed out on people who were well worth my attention and I just didn't bother even speaking to them because I thought that this other guy was the right person for me.

I personally think it is possible to be good friends with a guy. I have lots of guy friends, really good ones. Although when you start to cross the line of friendship and take your relationship a notch higher, it may not always turn out like how you expect it to be. Plus, there's also this uncertainty on whether you can still remain friends if ever being lovers did not work out for you two. I think this is something that must not be taken lightly as there's a big risk of losing both the friendship and the friend.

He might have a thing for you, anyways jokes are half meant and those constant flirting might be a sign that he really likes you. I for one in my perspective is I would rather date a girl that I can tell my whole life to and someone I can spend time together without having an awkward time.

I think it is, I have a couple of friends who are male. However it is very easy to cross the line between friendship and wanting something more. I can't say for certain, but I think your friend was testing the waters and then got scared. Perhaps it was your reaction, or because he realised he didn't want to lose you as a friend.