In the dream,i saw him again

China
September 15, 2012 8:18pm CST
The last person i want to rember maybe is him. He is the frist person who i like,but because he is very handsome,with a sunshine face,a taller height,so he is so famous in my school.There are many girls around him,as a so common gril,i hided my feeling. But i was waitting,after two years,i decided to tell him the true feeling of my heart. However,though i had thought the meet scene many times,it was still beyond my imagination. When i saw him,i saw her girlfriend with him too,at that time,i had nothing to say. But i can feel my eyes were full of tears,i run away. Why he appeared in my dream again,for it has past 4 years.In my dream,the same thing happened again,and i was crying so sadly.Why?why?why i was still so sorrow ?
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11 responses
Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello, friend! The reason why you still keep on dreaming about this guy is because you have always been thinking about him all the time. That is what usually happens when you think of a person or a thing or an event that is either important to you or just have a great impact in your life, it goes to your subconscious mind and you are able to see it in your dreams. I am so sorry if the guy you seem to fancy is already committed to someone. It is not healthy for you to be thinking about him so much. There are still other guys around that is worthier of your love and attention. Be happy!
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xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Wow,i think you midunderstood me. Actually,i didn't dream him often,this time was a except one. Maybe that's for he hurt my proper pride,and i didn't find a suitable way to release it.So there is a feeling of hate in my heart,i know it's bad for me,well i will find a different way to deal with this problem . Thank you very much . Have a nice time.
McCreeper
@McCreeper (777)
• United States
16 Sep 12
"Finally! My two months of psychology paid off!" There may be a chance where you have repressed this so far down in your unconscious that it's affecting your sleep. It's something you're likely to shrug off (I'm sure you will) but if not, then try to find a way to remove that dream. Hope this helps..
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xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Haha,in fact,it occurs few times. As long as i don't think about it,i will be fine,though it's temporary. Recently,i found a new interesting thing,that's DIY. You know flowers are very beautiful,so when you do it by yourself,that must be very wonderful. Have a nice day.
its-logos-plus-logic
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
24 Sep 12
I think your dream is pointing to an underlying sadness and disappointment you are feeling.. whether concerning something specific or life in general.. Dreams can be messages to ourselves or reflections of something..
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
25 Sep 12
Ye,you are right. That's a underlying feeling,it's hard to control. Thank you for you analysis,haha
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Sep 12
xiao^^ im sorry for your situation. but maybe you should try to find him. he had a gf back then but what about now? does he still have a gf? maybe your dream was a warning that maybe you can still have a chance with him^^ try to find him and if he is single tell him your feelings^^ tell him that you are in love with him since 4 years and that you didnt tell him before bcs he had a gf. im sure he will appreciate your feelings. to risk will be a good thing bcs if he says he loves you, you can have your dream happening in reality^^ and if not im sure he will still be nice to you and that way you can put in your heart that he doesnt love you and move on. i think you should open your heart to him and say your feelings. you deserve to be happy^^
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
23 Sep 12
he thought it was funny that you loved him? how come he was so cruel he was really a stupid guy! he never deserved your feelings. yes im sure that it still bothers you his attitude. i mean how could he think its funny that you loved him when you opened up your heart? i mean if he didnt love you he could at least be sweet and say it in a gentle way. but think it is funny thats very cruel. im happy that you are moving on. he doesnt deserve you be sad cause of him. soon the right guy will come into your life^^ and he will be so sweet to you
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
25 Sep 12
Haha,i am waitting for the Mr right. As for him,i haven't much words to talk about. That's not a worthy topic,now . Thank you very much ,and have a nice day.
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
23 Sep 12
Wow,thank you very much ,dear friend. But i can't tell him my true feeling anymore,bcs he has hurted my heart deeply. Not for he has a gf at that time,but bcs after that time,i did do my best to wait for him and tell him my feeling,however,he felt that's very funny. Now,he is nothing to me,and i don't want to see him forever. Why he come into my dream after a long period of time,maybe that is for i am not reconciled to this ending. In fact,i am moving on,and i can overcome the past,i believe. Thank you again,and have a nice time.
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randomarts09
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 12
Seems like you still remember about him and that makes you still dreamed about him. Don't be sad, if you find someone else who can replace his position in your heart, I'm sure you won't remember that feeling to him again. For now just focus on your life and doung your everyday life
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xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
I don't want to remember him,he is nothing to me,but he lives in my heart,i can't expel him . Though there are some person like me,what i can imagine is a bad ending,so i prefer have no start. However,even i persuad myself to be strong,but in my dream,i was still sad. Thank you ,i am fine now.It's a sunny day.
quanquanzhang
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
26 Sep 12
you really like him.i can feel,i have the same experence,but i told him at first,you should tell him earlier,there are two results,one,now you are his girlfriend,two,he refuse you,you will forget him.we should have courage to strive the happiness,i think,if you can't have him.please forget him.good luck!
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
26 Sep 12
Well,it's too late to remedy the mistake. Perhaps,you are right,i don't forget him until now,but that is just a feeling filled with regret. Thank you very much,and i'll move on. Best wishes to you at the same time.
ShannyBananny
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
16 Sep 12
Aww that is sad that four years later you still pine for him. It just wasent the right time I guess. I had a dream last night about a guy that I went to school with. I dreamed that he and my sister were dating lol. I have no idea why I dreamed that but then again we cannot control our dreams.
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Haha,maybe it's a suddenness dream. In fact,i don't like him no longer. But there is no reason to explain this dream,maybe ,my heart was hurted too seriously.
cmy1004f
@cmy1004f (381)
• China
16 Sep 12
I can understand some of your feeling, I also have liked a boy, he was not very handsome, or that I can not sure, we all too young at that time, just pipuls. But now I still can not forget him and will dream about him sometimes, perhpas I just regret did not tell him my true feeling.
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Wow,dear friend,i wish you are fine now. That feeling can influence our mood for a long time,we need to find a way to overcome it. You are right ,at that time we are too young and naive,everything is beautiful in our eyes,however...... Hi,forget it,tomorrow is a new start,fighting. Have a nice time.
natliegleb
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
16 Sep 12
i think he has created an everlasting impact on you and he has surely made you a big impact on you
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Hi,i have to admit,you are right. The only thing i can do now is that,love meself,live better,improve myself and do my best to achieve my dream. As for him,a past ,failure,sad experience.
marilyninocencio
@marilyninocencio (116)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
Because you never let go. Happiness is a choice. If you choose to be sad then you will be sad. Let go and be happy. You said that it has been 4 years...oh my, please don't waste your time. I guess, he's not just the one for you. Forget about him and feel happy. Focus on the things that you can do now and forget about him. Someday, the right person will come to you and you will be genuinely happy. Good luck!
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Hi,there,thank you very much. Ye,that waste time,of course ,he is not the only person who i met,who i like. Well,past is past,i need to move on. But it's just a dream,i can overcome it,the sad feeling is temperary. I want to be happy,and i will do my best. Haha,dear friend,best wishes.
caopaopao
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
16 Sep 12
Dear friend, A handsome man can easily attract girls, it is a natural thing, just like men are easily addicted to beautiful girls . When I was your age, I liked handsome boys , too. Even if I didn't have a chance to be near them. I think it is our nature that we all like beautiful things or persons. But now I'm an adult, I understand that beauty is just a small part of a man, and it's not the important part. Some men are not handsome but they are kindhearted and thoughtful. So as time went by, my attitude toward men changed. Believe me, you will meet your prince charming one day.
xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
17 Sep 12
Hi,there,thank you from the bottom of my heart. With the time flies,i realised that,a person,though he is handsome,he hasn't a kind-hearted heart,well then he is a "ugly" person. Just as you said,the real good persons are all have a beautiful heart . Read your words,i was moved,thank you again. Best wishes to you.