being hurt is to disguise..
By margiegay
@margiegay (158)
Philippines
September 16, 2012 10:31pm CST
when people get hurt, they usually find a way to make a disguise or to hide themselves of being hurt. why don't people just show it off with what is the exact feeling they have? this might be easier.
for me, i often hid myself. when i cry, i lock myself in my room because this is when i really feel that i am hurting only myself and not the other person who hurts me. because i could not bare in mind also to see the person i love to get hurt because of me, it hurts me more actually. these might come in a case to case basis but one thing is for sure is that you will only cry or get hurt because of you. we could not erase the fact that often times we blame others of what had happened to us, but did you think that it might have been you who cause your pains and sorrows? :(
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2 responses
@blinjk (617)
• United States
20 Sep 12
It really depends on your situation.Sometimes,we do something that might hurt us and it is not always our fault.There are people too who hides what they feel to others,maybe just because they do not want anyone to see them cry in front of the people they love.I also think if you cry in front of them,maybe they will be sorry for it.Sometimes,I usually show my feelings to others most specially if I am hurt.Just to show them that it hurts me that really bad.But it usually depends on the situation.
@margiegay (158)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
this is correct, situation is the main factor of how a person show his/her emotions to others specially to the ones we loved the most. we certain take into consideration the feeling of them knowing and seeing you in pain and sorrow, that's very dreadful i supposed..
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Not all the cause of our heavy feeling is done by others. Some could be decisions that we made that eventually turned out not right. I cry when I feel really bad regardless who I am with. But I try to suppress my feelings when I am with my parents. I do not want them to get hurt when they see me cry.
@margiegay (158)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
maybe that is the most righteous thing to do 'to suppress' your feelings so that our parents will not know that we're hurt.. because when they see us getting hurt, they are more hurt than us..
