why?????

You're a single mother, right? But did you and your husband got married? Or you were just separated? There are some thing that is difficult to understand when it comes to a relationship. And sometimes, those things are the worst to accept. Talk with each other and tell him your problems with raising your kids. Goodluck to you.

hi welcome to m y lot but you are stating you were the best so what was missing that he left you for, maybe you p aid a tad too much attention always to the children and not enough to him as hubbies get jealous when one gets so involved with the kids they forget they had a husband who also fathered those kids.I know as I was once there so i learned to have my mom babysit one night a week and we went out all alone to bond again and it saved our marriage too.

In my point of view, rating ourselves as being the "best wife and lover to our husband" can only be attained if these came from our husband's mouth itself. No matter how superficial we think ourselves are, we would not know what our husband really desires if we are not open in communication with them. There are some men that likes a "super woman" who had a career, takes care of everything and a good lover and bed mate but there are some who like a type like a "lady in distress" so that they could feel they are the " super man" of our life. A good heart to heart talk, honest communication is very important in every couple's life. If we feel we are superficial, some men would think they are not needed...could be the reason why he is not there. He thinks you don't need him.