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@nupur123 (392)
Hyderabad, India
September 17, 2012 10:39am CST
I am very worried about my daughter. She is 3yrs old and from now only she don't lushten to me . She is always agressive and disobey me all the things i tell her to do. I really don't know what to do . People says as she will grow she will start understanding . But i fell as she will grow she will become more agressive and do whatever she wants.
6 responses
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Sep 12
hi ! children of this age are playful and naughty. Sometimes they are required to be treated with some tightness. As the time passes, she would improve, specially when she starts going to school.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
This is the stage where kids are exploring things. Kids at this age have a short attention span. Just be patient with her. She will outgrow that in time. Just never fail to remind her of things that she is supposed to do.
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
I guess to have to let her knoe your authority as a parent. I guess you spoiled her these past few years that's why she's getting more stubborn nowadays. You should correct that ill behavior or she will live with it already. Try to psychologize her. Reverse psychology. I guess if you always nag at her or get angry at her she will just get stubborn. Goodluck. That's one of the challenges which you have to overcome. Relax while you are dealing with her. She's just 3 years old. Happy mylotting.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
17 Sep 12
Yea... My 2 year old to be has been behaving different, he changes like every week. I think it is very important to teach them(meaning giving them compliment and punishment as well) like when they do something wrong or not listen, time them out and tell them they can only go free after yo ustop crying or will listen next time etc... I find it works for my child so far. My husband told me we HAVE to teach him when he is little and would still listen to us, otherwise, by the time he is getting big, he will lose respect for us and not listen.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
raising kids especially for first time parents needs lots of knowledge. My son is two years old and sometimes, he disobeys me for what I told him. According to some articles, at such age, kids really behave that way. Some refer this age as their terrible age. They will get want they want at to the point that some kids will hit their head on the wall to get what they need. I guess your daughter is also in the same situation. In my case, I let my son cry and explan to him that crying does not get what he want and he is just wasting his tears. You need to be authoritative at this point, let her know that you must be obeys and follow all your rules. Try to give incentive if she does good. For our son, a simple lollipop will be enough and he will be happy to have it.
• China
17 Sep 12
hello,as i have no child yet,but i think that the things will be good some years later