People add you but never interact with you?

I guess that's just normal in Facebook.I never ask any unknown person to add me. I added some friends before who I really didn't know.One day I checked my friends and deleted them. I have nothing to do with them and they have nothing to do with me either. I hate reading about their activities.I guess it's good to have many friends because they can help with your blogs or you can get them as your referrals in any earning sites if they are willing to sign up and earn money.Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting.

You are absolutely right people add as a friend but not interact with each other. Because they add unknown persons and they feel if more friends in list means good thing but they not know if make a friend means interact should also with them. The one more reason is not facebook is boring so after joining mylot most of the persons not open facebook frequently.

I do not have a facebook account, but here at mylot, there are some people who added me as their friends and when I accept and check their profiles, I find that they do not participate in discussions a lot. Some even have zero or just one response or discussion. I am wondering what they are doing here if they don't participate, but add many friends on their friendlist.

I agree with you. That's also my purpose when I was younger. I wanted everyone to know that I have more friends than anyone of them.

I have my share of followers but never actually interacted with me. I think it's out of awkwardness, some are my highschool batchmates, which I have lost contact with but got reconnected via FB. I don't think we need to talk or greet each other every day but a simple hello would be the courteous way of acknowledging each other even at least once.

yeah that might be some of the reasons. For me i think they just want to know what is happening with you and might be shy to message you because it's been a long time since you really talked or maybe there are some kind of a hidden crush or special feelings so they enjoy to watch your profile :-)

I am very dubious about adding people, especially people I don't know on Facebook, I have heard a lot of bad feedback from others through accepting people on Facebook, I have a very small group of friends on Facebook, most I know personally, others I have connected through playing Zynga games like Cityville, or through people on Mylot who I have connected with. I did a few months ago accept someone I didnt know but then they started to hound me and in the end I deleted their friendship. You have to be so careful. and yes some people do collect friends on Facebook like trophies.

haha it is really very common in facebook. imagine if all your friends all hundreds of them would just interact with you in facebook, our message inbox would really be so full we could not even handle it ourselves! :D ha ha but hey im sure our close friends do interact with us in facebook. :D

I agree with your opinion. So far this sometimes happen to me, but the people who add me on Facebook are just looking for neighbors that is needed for the application games that they play on Facebook. Other people that know me may add me using their dummy account instead of their real one and spy on my Facebook updates. Boy, I'm really annoyed. I really prefer real friends with real accounts, not fake ones!

I don't like it when people will add you as a friend and then they just never bother to speak to you at all. Most of the people who do this will be people from school and you just know that they're only adding you as a friend to either make their friend count higher or because they think that they want to be nosy about the things that you have done in your life and adding you would mean that they were able to do that. I have recently deleted all of the people from my account who have not spoken to me in a long time, because I have better things to do in my life than waste time seeing updates from people who I just don't care about in the slightest.

Hi squallming, I have a friend list of about 800. I know almost all of them, but there are only few with whom I interact on facebook. And others, atleast I know them through friends or through some organizations. You may never know when you will need to interact with them. And facebook is all about socializing. The close friends are already there and the addition of other people make you socialize, or atleast they feel,"oh this guy is in my facebook list. I remember him." I don't add people whom I don't know, but add people whom I know but never talked too. But like you said, although added to the list, we may never interact or rarely interact. From their posts, sometimes it give opportunity to expose to very important things in life. Happy mylotting...

yeah some people do that they add you but they will not interact with you, maybe they are just shy or they want to spy on your photos and know something about your life. I know plenty of people who added me on facebook like some in our school but in school they do not even bother to say hi or greet me I don't know what's up with them but I cannot afford to be bothered by these things since I have a lot more important things to do so I just ignore it. Happy mylotting and goodluck

Yes, that could be a reason. Another one I think is, they just want to look and see what you are up to. You know, there are some people who always want to know what's the latest in your life. Then they will either gossip about it, make fun about it, feel envious about it, etc.

Yeah I am agree with your point. And there could be some other possibilities as well. Like many people in the facebook are just internet marketers or lead generators they open an account on facebook and add thousands of friends to it. Then when they are all set up, starts sending out like and join proposals. They make a lot of I.Ds on facebook to cover hundred of thousands of people and by doing this they make a living for themselves. That is not as bad as just adding friends to show off or any of such cr*ps.

I have had this bitter experience in Facebook. A hell number of people including my school juniors have added me. i have almost 750 friends. but none of them interact with me or I try to. Since I dont know them much I dont try to initiate also. There are a few set of people with whom i always interact and others just remain as strangers.

Hi Squallming, I agree, to be honest most of the people on my friends list do not interact with me, I have deleted quite a few people but I realize that I shouldn't do that; So I stopped reason being I share the good news of the Gospel and I figure at least if the don't interact they will get Gods word.

I think that this happens a lot on My Lot. It's not the same for everyone but there are those that will only add you as they want you to join something of there's perhaps a website or service or something like that. The other thing is when you have so many friends on your list it's quite difficult to stay in touch with everyone and I definitely find this to be the case. Andrew

i like to interact with my friends in facebook^^ actually i have more than 400 facebook friends bcs i usually dont refuse invitations^^ when people ask me to add them i always usually give them a chance. i love to have friends from different cultures so anyone can interact with me there. i have many friends not to show off but bcs i like to meet all kinds of people.

I have lots of friends like that in facebook. But I don't mind though. It's not like they could force me to like their photos if I really don't want to. Plus I prefer them being silent than those that harasses me.

Hahaha true :D But I've always filtered my friends. Those who never even talk,like,comment,greet once a week or lets say once a month, I rather delete them. I don't accept immediately too. As of the moment I've declined a lot and still has pending subscribers. Facebook-I can't say everyone on my list are friends personally but I wanted it that even If i just met some here on internet, we build nice online relationship and yeah interactive.If they can't do that with me,..