My married life???

I do believe that it is natural that there are going to be tough times in the course of every relationship, so you definitely should not feel like you are alone with that. Now, I would never be one that would ever say that you should separate from your husband because you are really the only one that knows if that is the right decision for you. I know that there have been some times that I have been tempted to leave my husband and then I take the time to think about the good times that we are still able to have. Those good times still outnumber the bad times and they are much better than the good times are bad and that is the reason that I am still there. I am so sorry that you are going through a really tough time right now and I hope that you are able to make the decision concerning your future that is right for you.

Hi Jemaries, Marriage is a daily recognition of you and your husband's uniqueness. Try to focus on what you and your husband like doing together instead of forcing things to go your way. If asking him for a moment to talk about what's going on with you and him is not working then you need to seek for professional help--marriage counseling. Leaving him or packing your things up and leave is not the solution for now. You have to sit down and talk. Then, whatever transpired then you can move forward whether you will work on your differences and do your best to appreciate each other or being separated will be the best option then so be it. But give yourself a chance to hear him out and you to let him know your concerns. And when you talk, make sure to hold each other's hand and maintain an eye contact. End your talk with a kiss!!! Good luck friend!

If he is not listen to you. The better way to communicate with you partner is his friend that he truly believe so much. If he still not listen and understand what you really want in life. That means he didn't love you but himself alone...

Its very hard to make a relationship and very easy to break.so never take a decision with emotion.if you are not able to handle this how could you be sure that you will able to manage in future with other relation.so have patience and try your best.

Well a very complicated situation indeed.you both live together or anyone else in our family?i think there must be not anyone else,so these kind of situation have arisen.well it depends upon you my dear,what do you want?you want to separate or unite?whenever you see if he is calm,just try to discuss with him,if he has any kinda problem in which he has been trapped or what is wrong.try to ask him if he has some problem with you he is free to say.just assure him that you are talking as a wellwisher and not as a wife.try and tell if it works.good luck.

Maybe I can say for you. Talk to your husband. and you should both to decide what is the best for you and him. because he is still your husband. and he has the right to know what you decide.. Good luck!

I think more than your compatibility with your partner, it is the growing communication gap and trust deficit that has led to the current standoff. I'd suggest to take it easy for a while. I know it's tough. But it is a bad idea to take big life decisions in an highly emotional state. Let things cool down a bit. Then get the elders in the family, mutual friends or even use marriage counseling to help resolve the differences.

I am so sorry to hear that, I hope you choose the best decision regarding your life with your husband.

i think you guys should go to marriage counseling as soon as possible. as a person who has been married almost 25 years, i can tell you from experience, it is not always easy but it is worth it if you love each other.