Marriage plus in-laws
By pogi253
@pogi253 (1596)
Philippines
September 18, 2012 8:28pm CST
A cousin of my friend just got married. However, her in-laws do not approve of her and saying bad things about her. She loves her husband so she does not say anything about it. She just cried about it. Her cousin told her that her husband should stand by her and protect her from those in-laws. But her husband do not have a high earning salary and still depends on his parents sometimes.
If you will be in the situation of the woman, how will you deal with it?
3 responses
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
19 Sep 12
If money is the only thing that makes the husband to go a little low when his wife is treated wrongly,then she should go to additional job or a more income job(if she already has one) so that that will help the family to stand on their own.After that things will be alright.Even if they are dependent on their in-laws,I think her husband can speak a little for his wife.Now your cousin may adjust and cry things over,but in the long run,it is going to be a direct with her in laws.How long can anyone stand such misery.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
Her situation is really hard and can be too stressful. But as much as she want to speak her mind about it, she should keep a calm disposition and keep the respect she is giving to her in-laws. What she can do is to talk about the situation with her husband and when they have enough money they should get or rent a place of their own to avoid further conflict in the house they are currently staying.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
19 Sep 12
Whatever we tell it may not be real. it is the fate of that girl to be daughter in law of such inlaws. she has to exercise patience., If possible she should take employment and be away from the house for more hours. It is a tricky situation.
