To be faithful or not to be faithful

Love and only do your husband

I am an all or nothing kinda woman. I love my husband 200 percent, If he cheats, or even if I were to cheat, that would mean, things were over. No, we could not even out the slate and start over. That would be the same as jumping off the bridge because you see everybody else do it. Besides, I am a good woman and I know it. My husband would not be the sharpest tool in the shed if he were to cheat, he would loose everything. I have been cheated on by my first husband, I walked out after 15 years, no questions asked, no excuses. He would have had better luck if he had chosen to discuss the possibilities of a Poly relationship. If your needs are not being met, talk to your other half, figure out what is missing and do what you can to recapture it. If you can't, be honest about your needs, karma will come back to get you in the end. I would rather you be brutally honest than cheat. Thats just me

To be or not to be, that is the question, lol! Seriously, being faithful really remains on some people who really have a fairly remarkable conviction of one's self and having the fear of his/her belief that adultery is a sin. Temptations are really everywhere which would be a vital factor with regards to being faithful or not.

Getting even would only make the matters worse. That's what I think. If my husband cheats on me and I would find out later on, I just don't think i could go on with the marriage anymore. He knows that already and he knows what i believe in. I cannot be treated with less respect and cheating is a crime for me. There was a woman though, that i read in the papers, who cheated on her husband once and according to her, it made her appreciate her husband more and helped her with her marriage.

I think there is no excuse for cheating on either ends. No one can justify cheating. It is just wrong either way you look at it. It often leads to pain and broken trust. Once that trust is broken it is very hard to get back and that in itself often will lead to relationship problems in the future. Seeking revenge isn't worth it. Not for the damage it causes to a person's self respect or to the relationship there in.

Hmmm... this depends on the person involved. If I were it, and I found my husband is cheating on me, I think I do not have the nerve to go on with our relationship anymore because he already knows that is a big NO-NO for me. I even warned him that if ever I found him doing that, he'll definitely say goodbye to his junior. lol! Well, I do not know if I can do that but I do not know either how I can react to it when it comes. But I do have an officemate here who cheated on his wife. They even do not have a child then. They had a big fight and even almost broke up. But his wife still forgave him and they are still together until now after 20 years. They adopted a child 3 years ago.