Once you lose someone, it's never exactly the same person who comes back...

Hi avinash2506, We can never expect the people to be same all the times. On the basis of time and circumstances, Everything is changing. Only one thing in this world is permanent and that is change itself. If the person comes back after some break ups in your life, then it is very very very hard to be the same again. The scar remains in the relationship. If you are able to bring back the relationship in the same form, then it is the maturity. We people are full of egos. If some person have hurted you in the past, then somewhere the ego remains which is why you feel the person is not same again. In one hand we want everything to be same again on the other hand, it is not happening. And then we quarrel again and again, and its never same again. So the maturity is to let go of egos, and if both of you are able to let go of past and egoes, then believe me, the person you'll meet is far better than you have been expecting. Happy mylotting...

I feel so sad about this and partly i'm agree on this. We all growing up and we go through happiness or sadness. So don't try to blame anyone,it is the time who makes us change.Happy mylotting.

If there was such a huge time apart i think there will ultimately be changes in you too not only the person whom you lose. the thing is we often only think that other people have changed and we fail to see that we also have changed ourselves and that we only have thought they have changed because our preference has changed or is now different too.

Well this is an expected outcome as people do change plus life is a constant change. What to hope for though is that the person has changed into someone better.