i no longer love you ..i am sorry..

Hi. I would like to share a bit experience about my family. My father had a mistress and worst got a child on her. .

well, when being a husband and wife, they are kids...even they are not in love anymore but they have the same objective to care...their kids...it is responsibility married guys. Many couples can live as friends in marriage life to care their kids, as long as both are pleased with it...and they are still live in happiness

I think the husband doesn't have to say that to his wife. His action alone can speak for itself. ANd when that happens, i think it's really time for them to separate ways. Though, there has to be a legality when it comes to the sustenance of the kids, if ever.

i think that would depend on the circumstances why a sudden change of feelings toward the spouse. There are many instances and obstacle that would decided to end up the marriage life. We must always look the bigger picture and if the weighing from disadvantages to disadvantages then their you can decide to give up or not to give up your marriage. Sometimes they say if you love your husband so much and if that makes him happy of letting him go then do it. I'm sure you can live peacefully than making it misserable. Just stand up to whatever decision you wanted to make.

This one is really tough. They say, do not push yourself to someone who can't love you back but hey, what if you are already married? In some countries, divorce is as easy to get in a snap of a button. In some, like here in my country, it would take a lifetime to get an annulment and it is expensive! As for me, try to sort things out. maybe you guys only need space and time off from each other. Get a counseling as that would also help. Lastly, think about your kids (if you have one) and of the love and the years you have shared together.

i think let go the man because when he is not caring the love of his wife. the man was not good.

I think there should really be only one love that is worth fighting for - if both of you are willing to go through anything together, and if both of you are fighting for the love. If in any case, only one person loves and fights for the love that was... i think it won't be the same anymore. It is as if you are fighting for something you want, you love but can never have because that one you are fighting for will eventually find its way to be away from you.

That's why before getting married, it's better if our relationship should have a solid foundation. We should get to know each other very well. We have to know each other's strengths and weaknesses, etc. Getting to know each other is very important. Some have whirlwind romance, some have love at first sight, some have no feeling at all but they agreed to marry each other. Marriage is a sacred thing. We can't just turn our back to the one we married.We made a lifetime promise. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting.

It depends on the situation whether to let go or fight. I will never hesitate to let go if my partner doesn't love me anymore. There is no use living in one roof without love and respect. I know there are many who will disagree of separation/divorce- but sometimes it is the best solution than staying a relationship that doesn't work anymore. Yes, there are kids that should be considered on this matter- but a violent or unpeaceful environment will also give every child a bothered life. There are many things to consider on this matter- and that depends on each individual how they will handle or how they will settle things not only between themselves (the couple) but also the kids.

she should let him go. if he doesnt love her any longer then there's nothing to fight for. she should let go even if it hurts her. life is so short she deserved to be with a guy that gave her love ^^ you are right sometimes feelings fade away and i think for it not to fade away you need to show your love everyday^^ sometimes married people get so busy taking care of kids or with their jobs that forget to show their love to their husband everyday. its important to always do it everyday.

Well thats very serious matter you aroused.personally i have never seen such circumstances when a husband says to her wife that no longer he loves her.ya it happens when charm of married life vanishes and husband and wife feel like distanced from each other sometomes.but if they realises this they try to makeup the gap anyhow.after a few years of marriage its a child that bounds a couple.so evrything should happen at right time.and even then if distraction happens i donot think its always husband who wants seperation.any of the couple may got distracted for any of the reason and i believe that depicts a sense of irresponsibility.

I think the wife should do something to work on the relationship go to couples counselling. If after talking about their feelings and trying they still can't make it work and the husband doesn't love her the woman should do what she can to move on. It's really hard but she has to see that things won't ever be like they once were if her husband doesn't love her anymore. There is no point living in a loveless unhappy relationship, she's more likely to move on without him around. Of course things get a lot more complicated when they have children. Husbands and wives usually sacrifice themselves by living in a loveless relationship so that their children don't have to go through with divorce and live normal lives, or they wait until their children are old enough to cope with it.

we filipinos believe that marriage is sacred so i think the woman should try to fight for the love of her husband, i think if her husband is loosing his love to his woman theirs another woman involved!