Killed Daddy to save MOM...

tools used - but the child use the knife.
Philippines
September 19, 2012 6:04am CST
Hello Lotters, Maybe this is a sad state of murder for an 11 year old, but a Hero to her MOM. the child was present when her parents were arguing. the argument was about her Dad's cheating, out of anger the father attempts to SAW her moms legs. Out of the child's desperation, she stabbed her father because of this. the father tried to ran despite of the wound but died... The child is in the hands of the Social Welfare. Must have been a nightmare for her...
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
21 Sep 12
That poor child. I don't understand why she was taken from her mother. It seems as if that would make it doubly hard on her.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
21 Sep 12
I understood the situation. It just seems to me that the child would have found more comfort in her mother's arms than in a relationship with complete strangers. I know that my child would have. Not that any thing like that could have ever happened in our family, but I know that it does. I still maintain that a loving mother would be better equipped to give comfort to a child than an over burdened social worker.
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Hello Bellis, if you were reading the discussion, the child was present when the couple was fight. now, the abuse has caused the child to act quickly and save her mom which was quick thinking of her. Maybe you don't understand because you will be scared and panic if this happens to you. have a nice day
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
I fell pity for the kid. And I think he will need a couple of years for his psych health to recover. I mean,I don't think he will be punished greatly by third parties like the court since in my opinion,he already suffers too much traumatic memories as he grows up.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 12
she must be taught by psychology. it`s not easy things in her life..
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Hello Jeanneyvonne, It's actually a girl and she acted fast desperate though confused why his dad would dare cut her moms legs with a saw. I do hope when she grows up she can be more tough than she ever is. its their fathers fault anyways for hanging with anothr women
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
19 Sep 12
I cannot imagine what the child is going through and now is taken away from her mom too. I pray that she can find peace in herself.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 12
she means the mother or the kids??
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
hi LK, the child will be in trauma for this, I think the child always see the same scenario and fed up with the same thing happen always. happy mylotting
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Hello Bhabycatch013, She will remember this for the rest of her life. not to mention that she is just a child. but i hope that she will grow strong in the future and in time her mother will be proud of her did. besides, she didn't need a guy like that from the start. have a nice day
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
I was also saddened and shocked with this incident when I saw the news on TV. It wouldn't had happened if the father was being responsible to his family. I guess this is also an eye opener to all of us. I hope and pray that the child will get through this in God's help.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 12
i think it didn`t only happen in your country in many country, the similar case happen
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Hello marie_cuizon, I think with the help of DSWD she can move on with her life, not to mention they can get support from the nuns or the priest. but if she didn't do anything, she would have lost her legs and the child would have rememeber that for the rest of her life, but she's brave and saved her mom
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
Yeah that was a really sad story. An 11-year old girl killed her father to save her mother. Maybe she always see that happens. Maybe her father even hurt her when they were quarrelling. Maybe the child had had enough. She didn't want to see it anymore. She loves her mother so much so she saved her when she saw that her father was going to saw her mom's legs. For me I will do that too. No offense to anyone. That was just my opinion.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 12
the kids have no choice.. in the hot quarrel, she only think that her father is root of the problem in her simple mind, she only have one aim, stab her father.. maybe she doesn`t know too the impact when she stab her father..
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
21 Sep 12
That is so sad to have to make a choice like that as a child . Those parents should be ashamed of themselves arguing in front of a child and the father attempting to do such thing . I dont feel much pity for the parents only the child that will have to live with that for the rest of his life . Some people should not have children and it worse because when you take the child away they normally get more abuse and rape when place in a orphanage. They have small chance of making it out unharmed . When we see people that are just angry its not because they always want to be they just cant help it .
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
That cheater deserved to die. However, in God's eyes, he should have given another chance. We should not put the law in our own hands.Although, I understand the child. Maybe it happened too fast and it was too late to realize that she'd killed her own dad. I hope she'll get over it. It's already a part of her dark past. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 12
it will make trauma in her long life.. she will remember her self as the murdered of her father.. and it`s not easy to be passing..
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
That is a punishment for the father. Too bad and too sad that it is his own child who punished him.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
hi, i have watched that news about the story of a boy who killed his father because the father attempted to cut the leg of his mom,i could not hate the child because the love feeling for his mom,maybe he really loves his mom to push him to do that thing to his father.
• United States
19 Sep 12
Oh how terrible for that child to have to live with this memory of what she had to do to save her mom. I hope the mom wasn't injured too badly... hope that father was stopped before he could complete his nasty deed.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
19 Sep 12
it is sad that kids have to go through all this. I hope that people don't do all these things after marriage. what is happening to the world. Parents are not bothered about the future of their kids. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Hello Riyauro, Some parents are not mature, though they risk getting along and settling but not sure how long will their relationship holds. right now i believed the daughter should need more love and guidance from her mom. you welcome i hope the child grows strong and because a good person.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
I can't blame the child. He won't do that if he didn't saw what his father about to do to her mom and since he loves his mom and to his anger he did it. It is a lesson for parents not to fight in front of their kids. Not a good example. I am sure it is so traumatic to him now.
19 Jan 20
The mother should have no problem getting her child back unless its reported that that wasn't the first time the child witnessed him abusing her. Children eye witnessing a parent being physically abused is considered a form of severe neglect to the child. At least in California it is.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
Yeah this must be very traumatic for the daughter to kill her own but abusive father. I think the Social Welfare should try to console her and maybe give psychiatric help to ease the pain and maybe some confusion on the part of the daughter.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
19 Sep 12
This is a horrible story, but it is something that many children live with on a daily basis. I was raised in a home where domestic abuse was an accepted way of life, but I remember being too scared to do anything to my dad. I am glad that this young girl done what she did to help her mom. I hope that mom is okay and I think that the child should be returned to her mom. she needs someone she loves with her right now.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
19 Sep 12
It's like a nightmare. I think the dad deserved it. Any child won't allow someone hurt his or her mum, even by his or her dad. The daddy was stabbed because what he did was really wrong, first cheating, then violence, he is not a good husband. The girl did it right, but still it's a stress for her, maybe the shadow of this will never disappear, poor child. Hope all the couples can try to calm down to solve problems they have and make a peaceful environment for children.