The relationship parents against on.
By Erynn14
@Erynn14 (357)
Malaysia
September 19, 2012 7:30am CST
So I was here again thinking about this relationship stuff. I have think for most of the idea which already squeezed all my brain juice out just for this. Any idea on letting the parents who against our relationship to be the other way round? This happen cause of some bad things happen few days ago, which makes my parents dislike him for doing something with me or me not telling them I'm having a boyfriend just because I was scared they will against us. And I have think of lots of ways, like make him to have a great grade or straight A's probably in SPM in Form 5. Since he was in art stream. Of course, I as well need to work hard to get at least no fail and no C in my SPM certificate. But, it will takes another 1 year plus for that. So I'm thinking of some other way that make them accept him. But I can't think of one. And probably, I wouldn't be able to be so brave on asking them about what if me and him were together again or never broke up. So this is the things I'm suffering my brain thinking whole day and night long. I need you guys opinion. Thanks for sharing!
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4 responses
@riyauro (6421)
• India
19 Sep 12
it is very hard when you know that your parents will not approve of you having a boyfriend and you can be torn by the love of both parents and boyfriend. I have seen cases where the children go out of their way to be with the one they love and I am glad that you are still trying to find a way that your parents will approve of him.
From where are you. We also have the form system in school and not standards???
hey I would say just by jokingly ask your parents what would they want in a boy for you and whatever they say, start working towards it. it is very hard to tell you what to do because there is cultural difference from where you come from and from where i come from, so don't know what your people there look in a son in law.. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
23 Sep 12
erynn maybe you can ask them if is ok that he gets lunch in your house. or dinner. so they can know him^^ that way if your bf shows them that he really likes you. and that he is a responsible guy they wont be against your relation. at least they will be happy that you trust them. by asking their permission. just talk in a nice way with them and ask if is ok that he has lunch or dinner in your house. because you want them to meet him. im sure they will give a chance to your bf.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
It's not easy to convinced parents when it comes to this (love)
As we know that parents always want the best for their kids.
Maybe, your boyfriend has to show that he is worth for you.
just wait for the right time.
Maybe, when your boyfriend got a good and stable job, then your parents will understand and realized that your boyfriend is worth to trust.
@Jatada (291)
• India
19 Sep 12
i can't understand why you are talking about grades in the discussions.is this is the case that make you scared of telling your parents that you have a boyfriend or any other reason.if we don't know about the reason why your parents dislikes him then how will we help you.and what is this c in spm certificate.if it is generally the case of grades than it will be not the bigger one you can assure your parents that with him also you could get a better grades.
