should i quit now from relationship
By amitpro
@amitpro (75)
India
September 19, 2012 3:36pm CST
i was in a relationship from last two years. every thing was going allright but from last few days its not going well. my partner is not replying very well to me she sometimes i feel that she is ignoring meso friends suggest me should i quit from relation.
6 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
It's hard to tell you what to do.
We're not in any position to dictate what you feel.
But if you feel he doesn't love you anymore, then talk with him
The best way to know and clear everything is to talk with him by heart.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Hi amitpro, i think you should meet her and talk to her heart to heart to discuss about your feelings in order to know what really going on with her. Quitting is not the right solution without talking to her, she might undergoing some troubles or problems in life which she want to settle it by her own.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
when you are contemplating for break-up, it is better to talk it out with your partner. she may be having similar thoughts. or she is undergoing difficulties that's why she is not connecting with you recently. there is no reason to proceed recklessly with a break-up. talk and you'll see and know how the things are truly are between you and her.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
maybe you should talk first. ask her if there is any problem that she is facing right now so you could understand why she is acting that way. if you really love her, then you should also find a way to save your relationship.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
19 Sep 12
I think it wouldn't be fair for the both if you if you guys are just going to break up without sitting down and talking it out. If it needs to end, you guys deserve a proper closure. Sometimes, we tend to just want a space for awhile to think things through but that doesn't mean that we don't love the person anymore. I am not telling you to prolong your agony, but in my opinion, you shouldn't make any hasty decisions about your relationship without speaking to her first. Try to give her some more time, then try to get her to talk to you about your relationship.
@arpitshukla99 (84)
• India
19 Sep 12
first off, it is important to ask yourself what you consider a real relationship to be. Everyone is independent in their belief and ideas about thing,so never expect a person to always to see your way. however it is important to have similar expectation out of a relationship.If you wish to avoid frequent arguement. look for thing like whether or not it is important for the both see both of you each other every day.