relations ...can you eat from previously eaten sandwich?
By Csyluckdays
@Csyluckdays (169)
Egypt
September 20, 2012 10:41am CST
if I had a lot of girlfriends and she had a lot of boyfriends...I can imagine that I would sleep with them and satisfy my desire and she would do the same...but Is that right? Is that right to sleep with ten boyfriends first and then at the end she will marry her dream guy?really?what is that?how it can be right for a man to do the same?
he and her were trying to act as husband and wife to see if it works pr not?where is the sesnse in that?No morals and we destroy ourselfs first...woman here will compare between her husband and her previous relations and that would destroy her life?the same for him...
when you got a woman that had several boyfriends..can you imagine that there is a sandwich and there are many people before you took a bite from it?can you it?you will say that it is disgusting and when you eat fresh sandwich you will not think before eating...it is clear and no one ate it before you..can you imagine that in women..
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5 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
hi,
you compare relationship in a sandwich,but this is happen in our life and it is now usual,but its not the fault of man or woman this kind of situation because they need to find there true love by passing to the life of other people,for me its not disgusting once you really love the person,because true love can accept what people is in her/his past.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
i have always been clinging to this principle of "do not open the gift before the occasion/marriage"..but i am not in the position to judge those who have been into sandwich eating lol. :] love my have been so warm & real that time that made them believe it was already the right time to do it.. in case someone had too much from the past- as long as the current gf/bf knows about it and accepts everything about it.. then i can see no problem..they still deserve to be happy -finally to settle too :D
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
oh my goodness. well this is really something that is quite sensitive of an issue. it depends really on the person but then, i believe it should really be talked about more in private, between friends and all. sometimes we have our opinions but let us be careful not to offend.
my thought, though now that we are in this topic alread, my take is that i do agree it is going to be hard for us to "eat" from the same food everyone else has partaken of. this is just me.
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
I can forgive a lady who had like 2 to three boyfriends before me, but 10? I don't think so, no I will not build a relationship with a girl like that. Problem is, will that lady tell you the truth when you ask her? That's something to think about.
@bdfreelancer (518)
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22 Sep 12
I just wanted to add having had read your great post that leaving the ones who are really not into many relationships is good for someone who has had many girl or boyfriends in life. They should hitch up with the same-minded people, that might work for them better and they can also find ways to change for the better.
