is your mother like a child?
@quanquanzhang (504)
China
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Getting married and having a baby at an early age have advantages and disadvantages. But of course, for parents, they would rather have their children marry at a much later age.
I give birth at 22 years old, about 3 months before my graduation. It was really tough being a mother at that age, since I still need to have time for studying and I was not ready for that kind of responsibility. The good thing was, my in laws were kind enough to take care of my son while me and my husband were in school.
My son now is on his third year in College. And I do not feel we have a very large age gap between us coz I get to understand him a lot better and he does not just see me as his mother, but also as a friend.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Nov 12
Jenny you are right , I also see my mother as a friend and understand a lot about her , we dont have misunderstanding like some people do when dealing with teenager.
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
21 Sep 12
thanks for your experence,perhaps we need to make a little sacrifices for children
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, 20 years is not very early to give birth to the kids, in some places some girls giving birth to their kids at their 14th and 15th ages you are right, it is really hard to take care of the kids in that younger age, as we don't have more maturity to care about the kids at that stage
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
21 Sep 12
thanks for your reply,perhaps i'm not mature,i need to grow up!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Nov 12
My mother also had me at age 20 , I love and respecter so much because she is very mature and I have seen all she gave up for me even if I dont tell her every day I do let her know in the way I talk to her and she never regret having me and my brother she is the main reason for me wanting to do better each day .
@riyauro (6421)
• India
21 Sep 12
oh yeah it is possible when mothers give birth at an early age. I have seen a girl who gave birth to her first child at 16 and she is a mother of three now. All the kids are grown and she is still in her early 30s..lol. The kids don't respect her that much i don't know why and she becomes very depressed. She was telling me to give advice to her girls not to do this and that. I felt sorry for her. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
My sister gave birth when she was 17. I hope she learns her lesson. But I think she will be a cool mom. It doesn't mean that if a woman gave birth at the early age they won't be the best mom anymore, sometimes it's either way. Well, I salute your mom because I know she raised you as a good child. Say hi to her. :)
@stevenshang (2)
• China
20 Nov 12
my omther is a kind and gentle woman ?she aiways smiles at everybody ?she takes good care of my father and me ,and gives us every comfort?she love us and we love her too?
my mother is also very thrifty and industrious ?she can save every peeny and keep every thing in order ?she gets up early and goes to sleep late everyday ?she do every have no complaining?
she has been busy she looks older than she realy is ?but i still think she is beautiful?
this is my mother and i hope she is more and more beautiful and healthy?
i think all the mother in the world love her children
so you should love your mother and your mother still love you