I was wondering !!!!!!!

Hi 1hopefulman, i am very glad to see your sympathy dear, you know i never tried to hurt anyone in my life even i tried to help people but in my turn people take there step back, i am not telling lie,i know so many people over here don't believe this but my god knows, This is the reason i decided to be with my computer and share some good or bad part of my day to day life, i really like "Mylot" and i love to come over here. TK (pleas be around)

Hi June! You can call me Hope for short. I also like Mylot, so unless they throw me out or I'm too sick to type I'll be here. I see that you believe in God. Were you not able to find some friends at the place of worship you attended?

Hi 1Hopefulman, How are you dear? This short hope is my pleasure, what would i say now i don't have words my friend except "THANK'S" TK

Hi Marguicha, How are you doing? Yes, you are really blessed by god that he has given you second family and that is your friends. Friendship is something which we really need in our life, also i believe that there is no age band in friendship so i must say you are rich my dear. TK

Dear June - I guess some people just don't understand - perhaps they have never learned and we can only feel sorry for them, as showing interest to others should make them feel a lot happier. There must be other people you can learn to know that treat you in a friendly way.. I don't know what part of the world you live in, but if the diet of most there is wrong, it can affect their brain and they maybe are not capable to think the right way. One Dr wrote that wheat can make people sick and as our digestion affects the brain, they may get things like ADHD and even worse. So if people behave badly, they either have a wrong diet or they don't and understand how to show the love that God teaches us. Many think that selfishness is a good way, but at least my experience has shown that it is quite the opposite. God is love and he will eventually bless those who love Him. So we need to find friends who love God and if we can, help others to learn about His ways. If we study the Bible and talk to God every day, then He can become our best friend. What do you think..??

Hi Buenavida, thank's dear i will try my level best to not lose the hope but i can't say because i am too scared, i was coming across with so many examples in this age. which you can say the age of surrounding with friends. Oky, let me share one example with you, today what happen i was going somewhere and i met with my friends mother and she suddenly recognize me then said where are you these days? what are you doing? do you have something good for my daughter because she have completed her education and just because of your guidance my son is earning god but he don't have time for us and his friends. Now My dear can you explain me what is missing in this conversation? Oky, i would like to explain the thing which is missing is she forget to ask me How are you? I did as much as i can for my friends but today their parents is expecting me instead of asking me "How are you my child?"

Hi Buenavida, I think you are totally right, i am agree with your words. There is something wrong with peoples diet. You know what the way you express your words this really wonderful to me i think i am learning so many things in "MyLot" and this is really good. TK

Hi Winterose, Thank's for such a wonderful words. Yes,you are absolutely right we are rich when we have friends, but in my case this is totally opposite today i am struggling just because of my friends. I always tried to give them my best but now i think they don't deserve my friendship. TK

Hi Williamjisir, you are really lucky atleast you have bunch of friends to share your views. Life is nothing without friends. TK

No, I'm not looking for 'something to blame!' I'm asking, What do you need? (what advice are you looking for or what do you need help with or what material thing do you need?) What do you have to offer (in terms of 'areas of advice' or other 'ability' or worldly treasure)? And I gave the example of me: I have-lots of understanding & -an okay singing-voice, & I need-a wife & -a way to provide for her and for any children we decide to have.

Hi Mythociate, how are you? thank's for asking about my needs? so i must say needs never ends, i am a person who believe in opportunity given by god. My conversation was about friendship or i can say that why i am not success in finding a good and loyal friend, is something wrong with me but i don't think so because i have given my best to my friends. So what you think my dear, am i wrong somewhere or god is checking my patient or there is something else i am lacking with? TK (dear)

Hi Mythociate, i like the way you write because your are very practical, i believe we all are not perfect, i tried to given my best to everyone but in my turn people take there step back not in a matter of money but emotion. I become self depend after completing my class tenth but my friends always try to grab good things from me, took advantage of my money, work even my things as well. Today, if you are self depend and independent then everyone try to come closer to you and expect so many things but when your turn will come they will leave you and make the situation versed for you. This is what i have learnt from my life till now. TK

Hi Ladym33, i do agree with your words i hope i will get a lovely friendship circle in future but i am scared dear. My friends learned good and nice things from me and then they left me, one of is my real brother and his wife. This is not enough one of my best friend borrowed bulk of money from me and then he changed his mob no., one of them took all the information about how to open BPOs or outsourcing in country and ask me to find people to work and client and then he went to UK an settled there. Is this my fault that i trust on them. That's why i have decided to be with my laptop and connect with the people round the world (my lappy is my best friend now). TK

Hi Aries1973, Nice to see Aries because my zodiac signs is Aries. Yes i can understand what is loneliness without friends or someone in your life, sometimes there are so many people around you but still you feel that you are alone. My room and laptop is my life, i am far from everyone but i am in this word. TK

Hi Ontayp, yes you are right now i am very scared of making friends because there is many example in my life which make me think that,Am i wrong somewhere? i think bad part is i am too open,loyal and helpful to my friends that's why i am cheated by them everytime. Friend, i tried everything but still i don't know whats wrong? there is something wrong with me or them. TK