Being Determined
@winniemariposa (255)
China
September 22, 2012 2:05am CST
I find that attitudes will be influenced easily. If we can not generate our own views as soon as possible, we may accept others' views in no time. That will limit our creativity in some way, because we do not need to have brainstorm. Gradually, we can only echo others' views instead of ourselves'. Being determined means that we should stand in our ground. We can refer to others' opinion, but never copy their statements.
Learn to be determined also means we are mature in mental aspect, because we have developed our views toward the world and life.
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4 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
22 Sep 12
Hey thanks for the beautiful thought.
yes u are absolutely right. It is important to hear everyone but it is more important to give your own thoughts. Once we start saying others thoughts and views, we should be creative enough to blend our thoughts so that we can prove our point that even we can think creatively and have a stand on all the issues. This will prevent us from getting isolated from others.
What say?
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
Although I reallize that we will easily be influenced by others' views, I can hard avoid generate the thoughts that mixed with others' personal views. Therefore, the first step I should take is to decrease the impact. Do you have any suggestion that can share with me?
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
Sorry, I make a mistke... The correct one is "I can hardly avoid..."
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 12
Having determination is something that is looked up to in life. Being determined individual means knowing what you want. Even though sometimes we have difficulty determining what we want. As we progress, our determination can get better. Since when seen as a determined individual, others will look up to you, they'll see you as someone who can accomplish their goals abd succeed in life.
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
Yes, cofidence is also very important. If we are confident enough, we can express ourselves clearly instead of murmuring. I think learn to be determined can help us develop confidence, and vise versa.
@flapiz (23133)
• United Kingdom
22 Sep 12
"Being determined" is one of the things I need to learn. I am one of those people who changes my mind easily. And yes it does limit my creativity and uniqueness. I become a stereotype. And it is not a so good thing to become.
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
In fact, I do not believe that a person will born with perfect characters, so we need to improve step by step in our lives. It is not too late for us to develop the habbit of thinking by ourselves. Now, I am trying to express my thoughts every time we need to discuss, and it really works.
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
I think we should attempt to deliver our thoughts directly when we are talking or discussing, although it may not be perfect. It is also important for us to speak out loud, because our opinion can easily be ignored if we do not repeat for several times.
