Do you feel this your husband is best friend and family members are good friend?

Don't loose your faith or indeed you won't find a great friend. I can say there are good friends for the things I've done, I see friends as family and would even afford for them as I offered one fake friend once when she had these terrible things with her husband and I thought she was afraid of leaving because of her kids, so I offered they to come live with me and she could search for job in her own time while I tried to afford them. She didn't deserved, I find out 4 years later but I don't regret and never changed. And I also met amazing people that done the impossible for me so after being hopeful but always wishing to find good people now I'm a believer because it happened several times.

A true friend can only be found if we find someone who can really helps us in need.A friend in need is a friend indeed

Hi sur! It is nice to know that your husband is your best friend. Actually, we spend maximum time with our respective partners and the secrets, problems and apprehensions which we share with him or her can not be shared with any friend, so s/he remains our best friend, guide and well wisher.

While I do consider my husband to be one of my best friends, I won't go to the extent of saying that he is my only best friend. I also have a really good girlfriend that isn't related to me and also my mother is one of my other best friends. Now I do think that most of the other members of my immediate family are most of the people that I do consider to be my other close friends. Other than my unrelated girlfriend, I really don't have any friends that are not a part of my family.

Yes, our husband should be our best friend, because he knows everything about us and love us for what we are. We can always confide in him for whatever problem we may encounter at our work.

surekha: Obviously--it is our spouse who has to be treated as the best friend. This is more so in respect of Indian conditions where women regard the husband at a high esteem. Yes. some of our scriptures hold the women treated their husband as God. (Satyawan Savithri) In case a close relative behaves in an unfitting manner --then we take a break for a few months- many times such incidents happen in respect of family disputes or ego disputes. So we must be very careful not to have differences with close relatives -- son, daughter, inlaws, cousins etc.

There may come a time when you need friends other than family. It is great that you are close with family, but have you thought about the time when your parents will no longer be around?

I am not married yet, but I do have a long term partner who I am very fond of. I would say that he is like my best friend, because he is always the one who I choose to go to if I ever need anybody to chat to for whatever reason. However, I am very close to my family as well and this means that I am able to talk to them also. I would not say that one is better than the other, but I do know that I am very lucky to be able to have the family that I have been given. A lot of people don't realise how lucky they are if they have a close family, so this is certainly something that they should be aware of if they aren't already.

Hello Surekha, you used here word husband, it means this topic is only for females. It is better if you used life partner. It is my opinion that life partner is best one friend. This relation is last long relation. At a time our parents left us our children will busy in their life, but your life partner will live with you till last day of life.

Surekha beti I was married in 1966, my wife is my BEST FRIEND; there is no doubt in it, we both are ill now and take care of each other in all possible ways There are many things that a husband can ventilate with his wife and viceversa Most women quarrel with MIL, FIL, SIL, my advice; just drop this 'INLAW', consider as mother, father, sister and see the differece.. Is there any good news? Pm me. blessings

We can keep anyone as friend. I mean friend is a companion where we consider them as so close to us. It can be anyone, hb/wf or relative, neighbor, colleague or the like. But how we maintain the relationship is the important factor. I got very good friends whom I like than my wife. But that doesn't mean that I don't like wife as much. The friend has their own role in everyone how they are inter related each other may be girl or boy. I had a good nice few friends in boys and girls and I love all of them and the depth and intensity can't be measured because the friendship was in such a time where we understand what is real friends. My friends has such an influence in my life and the friends only helped me to grow and for me, I think friends are much lovable than my wife or children. Even my wife and children used to say the same fact when we all visited my friends home few months back and she visibly noticed what is the real relationship with friends and what is real friends.

I believe that true friend is exist, even they will come and leave and wouldn't stick long with us -because we have to grow up in different way. Family is best place to share everything. they are a group of people who never complain when we ask a lot and they never tired to help us again and again. I love my mother and father, I love my sister even we quarrel a lot when we were kids -she is my best friend!, I also love my brother and respect them as my teacher. I'm glad living in big family. My husband? He is my best partner even we don't agree each other sometimes...

Hi sureka, i am also in your sort. My family members are my best friend. I am cheated by some of my good friends, after that i stopped believing my friends and keep a certain distance from them. My friend is always my good friend, guide and well wisher, apart from her my mum, dad and siblings are my good friends