Torn between two friends

The thing is, do they want to reconcile? I mean, it doesn't really work if one or both of them would not really feel good about a reconciliation. You cannot force it upon them. If both cannot agree to a reconciliation, I think you should just let them be. You can still be friends with either of them. :) They both have to be in a place where they feel that reconciling is something that they want and would make them feel better. If one or both decides that they are better off without each other, then let it be.

be honest with your friend. the one that is mean sometimes. tell her what you think. if she stops being your friend bcs your honesty then this means she isnt your friend at all. friends are for saying good and bad things too. if you think that she wasnt correct to your other friend you should tell her. that way they can reconcile. if she gets mad at you thats a childish thing. you only want her to be fine with everyone. and not to have arguements with no one.

Its hard to deal with friends like that , when you cannot tell them they are wrong without causing drama.You are in a tough spot and you cant take anyone side , because the other one will be angry with you . You have to keep trying to get them to be friends again but if that doesn't work just continue to friends with both . Just be a good friends to both and never indulge in bad talking one with the other .

This is a difficult situation and I know this is indeed giving you some hard times. Maybe you can talk to them separately and try to convince each other to start a new. Ask the not so kind friend (sorry for the words) ask her to change a bit or else she will lose all good friends/people around. Then talk with the other friend to forgive the not so kind friend and settle everything. It won't be easy, but you can give it a try (at least)

hello there sunshinefame, indeed your place was quite difficult. since you are part of the friendship. perhaps, try to make the situation cool down at the moment, then maybe later on, you can open up the situation and begin to talk to them slowly. so you can able to settle it somehow.

I think just let the matter cool down as you want both the friends. Time will heal differences. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

Hi sunshinefame!!! Well its sad to hear what is going with your friends. But in this world, such things happen to many people. Its the bitter fact. Not all people are same. Some people are so much egoistic and never want to bow with other person. Your case is complicated too. You cannot change people immediately. Only you can do is bring the change in person slowly and slowly. Its good that you are a good listener. Like you said, if you start objecting her, you are afraid that you will lose her too. Its good of you that you are a good listener and good carer of your friends. Show your care to your friends. Talk with both of them nicely. When one of them complains about the other, just don't support on their words. Try to make them think positively. At least, you don't get into their discussion and get yourself in trouble. Cheers!!! You become good and that's only which matters. They'll note dare to quarrel with you. Good luck... Happy mylotting...

In this case, you have to chose. You have to pick up someone whom you believed deserves to be treated fairly and that the one who is not being so arrogant that everybody doesn't want her already.

A long time ago I had 2 friends like that. They had big fights and wouldn't speak to each other. I learned to stay out of it. When they were ready to be friends again they made up. Sometimes you have to just be a friend to both and wait it out. If the mean friend does not want to be friends again with your other friend there might not be anything you can do. You cannot force them to be friends with each other.