Its painful to hear about people talking over phones for long hours..

In my younger years, my friends and I would talk to 2-3 hours on the phone, too. I guess it is just a teenage thing- you know, endless stories about boys, clothes and more boys? But when I had a boyfriend in College, since we are together the whole day (we were classmates and now we are married), I would just tell him not to call me coz I need time to study and I also need to sleep by 9pm. We would sometimes talk over the phone but it did not last longer than 30 minutes.

You know the feeling when people are in love, they want to spend most of their times, talking to their loved ones, or special someone. well, i guess this only happens when two people are new in their relationships. when they are married, they have different kind of thinking. I have done that back then. yes, it is fun talking over the phone for 1 hour. (i only have 1 hour the most when talking in phone) but that was years ago. it never happened again. maybe that explains, i don't have a lovelife... well, anyways, i can say that when people starts worrying more of their love ones, they tend to talk long hours. well, i can understand if they are really miles away from each other and no other ways they can talk to each other. But as people mature and get married, there are different thoughts in their mind and those romance sometimes lessens.

Hello subhojit. It is painful to talk about for a long time over the phone, especially over the cell phone. There were quite a few times I was on the cell phone for a long time that I felt painful in the head and the pain lasted a couple of days. So now if possible to have a face-to-face talk, I would make an appointment after a few minutes' talk on the phone. If it is related to work, I will usually go for the talk. Take care.

I also not understand how people can talk till long hours I cant speak on phone more than 15 minutes because my ear problem is started. Now new generation persons spend full night on cell phone. I feel irritated if talk more time.

my friend said I'm an annoying person because I'm very lazy to hang up the phone. I'm person that always feel uncomfort to talk through phone, especially to talk so long and about a little thing. I said to my friend when I took long holiday from office: "don't call me, I won't hung up the phone. just send me a phone message(sms), and I will reply your message". sometimes I feel that phone call is very disturbing

I am extremely fed up with that roommates have a long call when I want to sleep, although her voice is not very loud ,however, it's annoyed and make me hard to sleep.It's really disgusting.

Boyfriends can do that and I can understand them because they are in love. Just hearing each others voice can give them heavenly feeling. So even they are just talking of sweet nothings they can last for hours on the phone. But it is a different thing if they are not boyfriends and just talking of things that are not that important and yet doing it for hours. Well if they are discussing about important business and they don't have time to meet personally to discuss this then it is understandable but if they are only talking of so-so-things, I think it is a waste of time.

Hello subhojit10, I thought of having this discussion but nice to see one from you. I hate the most people talk on cell phones for long hours. OMG it is annoying and nowadays with head sets they are continuously talk without a point. For some people it is their job or to live they need to talk on phones. That is acceptable. I recently heard that some are having hearing disorders or they have mentioned that one with a disease that will make the person hear the ringtone often even if it is not ringing. It is recent research. Phones are a great invention but it not used wisely by many nowadays. Have a great day always. Cheers.

Hi, You are right. talking for a longtime about meaningless things over a phone is not fair. Sometimes I have to talk for a long time on a phone because I am living far away from my relatives and friends. So for sharing our feelings it takes more time. But some people talk about eating and clothing and gossiping which is meaningless.

Hello subhojit... I am also belong to those lovers who were talking with my boyfriend over the phones for long hours.Indeed, it is very fulfilling for me to be with him at least over the phone for we are in a long distance relationship and I think most of us here in mylot understands my situation. I did not consider it as a painful one most especially in the ears for I did not noticed it already. Talking with him can ease my longing to be with him. That is the only way also for us to keep in touch and texting is not enough. I am very happy when we are having a conversation for a long hours.

Well, people have different reasons why they talk to someone over the phone, and usually, it all boils down to the fact that they need to talk over the phone because circumstances dictate that they can't do so face to face. Both parties could either be in two different locations and meeting up is not yet possible, or the time could be inconvenient. Either way, they want to talk whenever they want to with a person and the phone gives them an opportunity to do so conveniently. However long they stay on the phone....well, it's their ears and their business, unless they are disturbing you in some way. :)

i agree with you ,it is harmful for our health,lots of my colleagues and friends use lots of time on the internet,play game or do others things,i am not,so i can't understand their love,if they can't control themselves,i think there is no better idea.

People have lots of money to waste,I think this is also a way to spending it:).jokes apart I think this will continue fr a certain time no-not so much longer . actually its become a a addiction for people to show their attitude ,like old film-star showing that they r busy & more demanding,lol