would you stay because of the kids

I would never stay in a bad relationship. Staying will just put you and your kid's well being in compromise. They will see you constantly fight and dis-respect each other and that is not healthy for the kids. I'd better get my act together and find what's best for my kids rather than staying.

I wouldn't stay either. Kids can sense tension , right? And I heard they know when things are wrong and they blame themselves. So it is far healthier to leave than to stay.

I think that children suffer much more watching their parents fight everyday than having them get a divorce (or separate). While we all know what is best for everyone, it doesn´t always happen that way. And children , even when they are very small, understand the negative current in the house.

I will never stay in an unhappy relationship because of my kids. I don't want my kids to raise my kids in an unhappy environment- that will give them unhappy childhood as well. I would rather be a single mother but happy with my kids than staying in a relationship that doesn't work at all.

I think it is unfair to evrryone to stay in a relationship with someone because of the children,you are doing an injustice to yourself, your oaretner and especislly the children. if a relationship is fslling apart, staying in it for the sake of childrenn will not help anyone. /children can see what is going on and may blame themselves for what you can not keep together. you may feel that staying for the children is making things betterm but in the long run think of what the children will go through as much as yourself and your partner.

No I would not because then that teaches the children that they should be in an unhappy relationship and will teach them bad relationship skills. Plus being in that environment they may learn to not love at all. I happy have children with my husband we both have had our ups and downs but if it came down to it and we just didn't care for one another anymore I would not feel obligated to stay and make my children suffer through our bitterness. But that's if (:

I do have a child from previous relationship & I didn't stay... Now I have a very loving & understanding girlfriend... I'd never stay in a relationship if I wasn't happy, kids or not...

I have been through some tough situation with my marriage and I once thought of leaving my husband for good. But I could not imagine my children being in a broken family. I stayed, and prayed that somehow my relationship with mu husband would be better so that I could keep the family intact. I owe my kids a whole and happy family. And even if it means I have to sacrifice my own happiness, I will, for the sake of my kids.

no.if we didn;t solve our problems than it's uselles to stay in a relationship in which you're not happy. and I:m saying that because believe it or not children feel this kind of things. and what they see in family infulences their development as adults. and i don't know if it would be good for them to see their parents fighting all day long. family violence would also make things worse

A long time ago I tried, I tried for 8 years. Perhaps I would have stayed into this abusive marriage if I had no kids. Actually my daughter was the reason why I left. She was nearly broke by a guy who was not worth the word "father". It's still the best decision I made in my life. Still a big relief (it's 22 years ago). None of my kids miss him or think they missed anything (they still say that plus they had a good and safe childhood after all). Actually my eldest saved my life out of this miserable marriage. I changed a lot since that time. I enjoy being alone, never feel lonesome anymore or afraid.

No,I won't.The sooner unhappy,unhealthy and hostile relationships break,the better.Such relationships have extremely adverse effect not only on the partners' life,but also on the life of kids whose life gets spoiled for no fault of them.A healthy upbringing of child is possible only when the relations between husband and wife are sweet and mature.I would like to put an end to an unhealthy and unhappy relationship asap.

for me I would rather not to stay in an unhappy relationship regardless of having a child involve in it. I don't want spending my remaining life understanding big issues about what was going on in our family. I am married once, I work for our family because my husband has no regular work. If ever he'll get work he doesn't finished his contract in the company which causes him to stay home and babysit our daughter. I worked hard for us to have meals on the table. Even sunday's If our company needs employee to report I still go for work so that I have an extra income. After 4 years of staying home I suggested him to go abroad maybe he has luck working abroad. but then instead of helping me financially after a year of sending support he suddenly stop, he is indebted to someone that he must pay first after he sends us again money. But till now he does not even a single cent send us. so now we totally separated. I just explain everything to my daughter that we are not really for each other that her father is still irresponsible and don't even care if his daughter needs support or what. my daughter is now on her grade 2. And I thank my daughter cause he do understand all of what happened to our family.

I will not stay in a relationship just because of my kids. Of course before we fall on this situation I will really make every effort for our relationship to grow stronger. If both of you knows the principle of God's word I think there's a very low percentage that this will happen to you as a couple. Matthew 19:6 Consequently they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man separate. Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let each individual among you also love his own wife even as himself and let the wife see to it that she respect her husband.

I will stay not just for the kids, but because i love those kids i will really stay because they become a part of my life... that's right if both of the parents will stay happy for there children, so that their children might not think of being alone in their life.. right?.. good day, and God Bless you!