a friend needs a help..

This is really serious, and a very delicate matter for both married couple. You can advice your friend to think of conclusions after they talk with her husband. If I was in her shoes, I will ask my husband calmly with a pretty face like this; Hi! honey, how was the stag party? I hope you enjoyed it and that it was really fun. I'm sorry but I undressed you with my own discretion because I was worried that you might get sick with dirty clothes on. I hope nothing went wrong with you at the party because I saw scratches at your back and your brief in reverse. By the way honey, sorry I waited for you till you arrived because I can't sleep well without you on bed. Tell your friend to talk to her husband early in the morning like when they are still in bed or just when they wake up. and oh just let your friend ask or tell her husband then let her go out of the room then have her prepare a very delicious breakfast for him. When his husband is full or smells his favorite food, lets see what confessions/answers he'll say. I hope this will help :) though. And I hope your friend will be alright.

There might have been many events that transpired during the night.To a girl like us, if your husband will go home at 5am and that upon seeing his body after trying to change his clothes and see that there were scratches and all.,we would definitely think of bad things.I guess the best possible way for your friend to know all her answers to her question is to ask her husband herself.Let them fix everything because it's a private matter.The only time that you can help them or your friends is when she ask for it herself.I mean if you can see that your friend can't bear it anymore and as a friends you are there to help her cope and find solutions to the problem.

If I were in that situation I would asked my husband right away where he got the marks on his back and why were his underwear was worn on the wrong side. It could really make me mad. I mean, what could be a good excuse for that?

There are many possible events that might happened why his brief are worn reversibly and why he has some scratches on his back. Maybe he was drunk and his friend tripped him while he was sleeping. Other thing is that maybe they had gone to a fight with other gangs and he was been targeted in the back. There was also a possibility that he might joined a fraternity group or some organization with initiation. There's also a small possibility that he was sexually harassed. hahaha! The best thing to do is to have a serious conversation with the husband when he wake up and try asking what really happened last night. On the movement of the eye, the wife can tell if he is telling the truth or not. If the wife is not comfortable with serious conversations she can ask the close friends of his husband on what had happened. :)

uhm... i guess that i better do what is right. if i were on her, i better ask him tomorrow if "what happend last night"? and that's the time she will know the truth about what happend and what he did that night.. thank you for the share...God Bless you!

yeah,I think everyone to meet this kind of thing is very difficult to make a decision,but we have to face.I think i will ask the party of friends,if that is true,i will be leave him, i can't accept not loyal companion to me. Hope i can help you.