I am born jealous.
By Angelpink
@Angelpink (4034)
Philippines
September 24, 2012 9:23am CST
I am born jealous. Is jealousy innate to some people ? No intention really i got jealous to people whom he interacted with . I don't like the feeling , but what to do i really felt it. Even to his office mates i got jealous. Is this because of the overflowing love and affection i got for him ? This is really who i am. I know he is already suffocated with my possessiveness but what can i do , this is my nature. It is hard to have this "sickness " no medicine available for it. Spare me your thoughts friends.
3 responses
@wendy805 (261)
• China
25 Sep 12
please dont do this. if you can pretend, you pretend. pretend you are so jealous of those women who has any interaction with him. because i think that will help you win him back more.
i dont really have such feeling. i just doubt if i am lack of love that iam supposed to have.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Wendy , i can't hide my emotions , if i got jealous , i am telling him straightly . I don't know how to hide , cover and pretend like it was nothing for me.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
I wonder why some people are very jealous.
Don't get me wrong, but you are not born jealous.
It's insecurities that made you feel that way.
If you feel secured and trust your boyfriend, you will never feel jealous.
So, the best thing to do is...have faith in him.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
NO i am really born one , maybe it can be traced in my younger years when i have a battle of love and security.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
That's it, you are battling love and security when you were young.
So it clearly says "insecurity"- you have acquired it through experiences.
So, it's time to battle against insecurities and be secured.
The secret is, have complete self-confidence and trust people you love
@Celestemy (8)
• Dominican Republic
25 Sep 12
Well, I used to be very jealous before, and this made me suffer a lot. I was always suspecting he had an affair with any woman who smiled to him. When he talked to someone on the phone, I started getting nervous, wondering who she might be. When he arrived late to a date, I was thinking he probably met a woman and liked her so much that he stayed talking to her and forgot about our date. I lost weight and didn't concentrate on anything. Hopefully, I overcame my jealousy. How did I do it? I don't really know. I just talked to myself and said: "It's enough." I got tired of suffering and making others suffer with my unjustified jealousy. Besides, I realized men don't like women who try to control them and don't let them breathe. I changed completely. I was sincere to myself and decided to stop this, since it was destroying me in the inside. I try not to think he is with another woman. If he loves me, I must feel self-confident, and transmit this feeling to him. Sometimes we lead our partner to be with someone else with our harassment. I learned my lesson well. I suggest you to do the same so that you can live your love happier.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
I have read , it is been said jealousy is the result of loving too much and getting so little in return.