Good result in breaking up
By keichan1412
@keichan1412 (247)
United States
September 24, 2012 10:45am CST
Hi All!
Last Friday, I posted this discussion "Is it right that I broke up with him?". I received heartwarming advices from all of you. At least I got sure to my decision not to come back again to him. He contacted me continuously (thru text or phone calls because he was in work night-shift too) just to change my mind and we could be in relationship again, but still I sticked to my choice. Until he told me that I can do whatever I want but I will inform him regarding those. He gave me free will to do all the things and to go all places I want to explore. :) He also told me that he would adjust on our relationship so that he could be with me. He really loves me and I feel it
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@melissa14344 (211)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
hi keichan! Did you reconcile with him? For me, when you say something, you must mean it. Don't go telling him about break up if you are not sure or if you only wanted to receive something from him ( like changes in your relationship, I personally know you're not into material things, right? :D). Because by the time you really mean what you say, then he won't believe you.
Always thing about your decisions 100 times. And follow where you will feel at peace.
@keichan1412 (247)
• United States
25 Sep 12
Hi Melissa :) Yes, I reconciled everything with him regarding our relationship. He understands what I really want (just a little bit of freedom). I want to do things the way I wanted but of course I want my life to be with him. :) So we settle all problems we're encountering. Thank you! *mua mua tsup tsup* I am happy with him :)
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
If you want to forgive and be with him again, just take your time.
Let him suffer a bit to make him realize that you can live a day without him.
Sometimes men needs a little punishment to make them feel that women in relationship should not be taken for granted.
@keichan1412 (247)
• United States
24 Sep 12
I think I gave a little punishment, just by saying "No", "I don't want our relationship anymore", "I want to be free", "I want to be single again". Simple words really hurt :)
