So IN LOVE...

That sound so sad , do you try being in another relationship ? . He is already married so you have no choice than to move on . You can always love him but you can also grow to love someone else if you try hard enough . It will be difficult but we have to face facts and shake ourselves off when life dont go the way we want .

True love never ceases, no matter how long,it always stays in our hearts.. but moving on,stepping forward and opening another life's chapter make us see how beautiful life is and the past would just be another history... We just have to lift everything up to the Lord and He would surely take care of the rest... God bless...

Hi, Almondchoklet8! Yes, it is really unfair for your husband most especially if he is being the best person for you. But sometimes, we fail to see the truth and choose something else. Our reasons clouded with "what ifs". In all honesty, I have also been in that situation and it took me years to be focused on my own life. It is really hard to forget if YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER the past. Try to slowly veer away your thoughts about the times that you had with your ex. I am sure that it would not be easy, but if you are willing to remain your sanity, then YOU HAVE TO! I wish I could talk to you some more about this coz this is a hard thing to do. It is like you against yourself. To make it a bit easier for you: Does your husband deserve to be treated this way? Has you husband showed you that he has loved you less or does not do his responsibility as a husband and father? What do you think your kids (if you have) would think if they find out that you don't love their father like they think you are? Do you see yourself leaving your family just for the guy?

So you are in love with him and your husband or just your ex?

i think you need time to forget him,you should start new life ,or you can't get happy,even it is hard,but you must try to do it,it will be a good memory,but not the reality,you need to sober.

Seven years is such a long time and if I read you correctly, you are married aren't you? Have you got any kids yet? Try to focus on them, let them (don't forget your husband :D) be the focus of your love..if you haven't got any kids it is time to really consider having one :D