My sbbs bashing me on Facebook :(

@verolop29 (1096)
United States
September 24, 2012 11:37pm CST
I don't really know how to take that from my big sister. And on Facebook, no less! I thought she'd at least call me but she didn't. I mean she knows my number..did she cut her fingers while cooking and therefore couldn't call? I don't get it. What do u think she means by that? I was only telling her that it was about time she let her daughter work at McDonald's and I put a smiley face and exclamation marks in my comment post but I think she took it the wrong way.. Here's the short version: She's a single mom and now works 2 jobs to keep everything running smooth. A few months ago when Ariel (her daughter that is now working) wanted to work but her mom wouldn't let her saying she didn't trust her. I know that's just a bunch of bs. She's a smart young girl far more mature then her peers, I couldn't see y she would say that to me about her. I wasn't implying anything so y would she go there... I feel so angry with her. Did u know she visits her fav cousin who lives in Dallas? I live closer but would she see me? Nooo she wouldn't. I think this has a lot to do with the fact that I was a hairbreadth away from adopting her kids and she holding that against me. That's another long story that doesn't have a happy ending. Anyways after I said that comment she said she couldn't find a job and something about her having a problem. She's a teenager so what. They have their own set of drama and whatnot...we all go through it but some handle it better than others. But I am not going to stress about it anymore.
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@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
25 Sep 12
Well, that is one of the reasons why I am only on Facebook for games. I know she is your sister, but you cannot be held responsible for how she understands and comprehends whatever is on Facebook. It does amazes me knowing that you two are sisters and yet one tiny Facebook post cannot be clarified by just one phone call. Of course as siblings, I would be expecting much from that.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
27 Sep 12
Anyone that goes on Facebook to bash someone rather than to say it to their face is just being cowardly and hoping to gain people to take their side of things or maybe just to hurt and humiliate the other person? I don't know. I know that it is easy to misunderstand things on the net and Facebook is just known for this sort of thing. I don't post much of anything on there.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
27 Sep 12
Oh, recently, some young girl was supposedly bashing me on her wall. I'm a friend of her mother's and she comes into the store that I work in a lot. I didn't see what she wrote and haven't even bothered looking. I was told about it by other people. When I learned of what was bothering her, I talked to her. It was a complete misunderstanding that could have been cleared up real quickly had she just asked me about it.
• India
28 Sep 12
Thanks for details, last night I deleted my account, because several friends there told me over phone and via email that I am sending nasty stuff to them; though I never did, I felt so sad, well I used to add, who ever wanted to be my friend, that was foolish i have new account now, but i shall be careful