why we trust the wrong guys and when we find a good guy we dont trust?

hi, in love sometimes we thought that we found out the guy for us but as years goes by we will realize that he is not even though we gave all trust to him,then when the right guy arrive that is the time that we learned in our past and careful to the recent.

yes sometimes we like people and we dont even know why. i felt that after breaking up with my first boyfriend. i did everything for him. how come i was so in love when was me doing pretty much everything? sometimes we just realize things later on. i also thought that there was a guy that loved me but i couldnt love him. he was very sweet but he disappeared for some time so thats why i never could get close to him. later on i gave him a chance bcs i thought i just like guys who dont value me. he really seems to value me so i will give him a chance bcs i was starting to love him. in the end i was hurt again. my advise is that sometimes people are not exactly what we think they are. they change sometimes. so sometimes we think a good guy is good and he is bad. and we think a bad guy is bad and he is good. so the best to be sure is always try to know the person first. appearence shouldnt count to be friends.

These types of persons does everything just to make themselves become your guardian angel,so that whatever evil plans they are trying to make against you would surely hit you by surprise,that is if you still keeps on listening to them,yet there are other really good persons who are just within your friends,that are really giving their best to make you their best friend.Just study all the movements made by your friends,anyway those with bad inclinations are detected how they are doing,as long as you just a good decision you would never become as one of their victims.

I don't know, I think it's just that people are attracted to things that they don't really understand. I have fallen in love with several people in the past who were totally wrong for me, but sadly you just don't seem to realise this until it's way too late for you to do anything about it other than get yourself hurt. The person who I am with now is a very good person and I would trust him with my life, but I did find it quite hard to trust him in the beginning because of the fact that he was so different to every other guy that I have met, and I just didn't realise that people could really be that nice.

It is impossible to recognize the true nature of a person unless we live with him for a long time.Similarly you can't know who of your friend is true and who is false unless you get into a trouble.Deceptive people know the art of hiding their true intentions.They would talk to you sweetly and you begin trusting them.Their true colors are recognized only when you are in a trouble and they refuse to help you.We are not God and we don't know who is of what nature.

yeah i ever have the problem like that.at the first i think his good friend for me.but after that i know that he just using me. and the person i think bad for me,actually he is kind for me.and after that i have a good connection for him.and he,s a good friend.