Just disrespectful, karma will come back to him
By 911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
September 25, 2012 8:33am CST
My sister has to work at 10, and so do I. So usually has a shower first then me. My start time can change, so usually its shortly after 10am.
9am my brother walks right past my sister, pushes her out of the way and goes have a 40 minutes shower now he is still in there. My sister is banging away on the door saying she has to brush her teeth before going to work.
Mind you he has no place to go today, he had 4 showers yesterday, and Im sure that wont be his last shower today. Now if I dont have to go anywhere I wait until later and everyone is done and gone.
All this behaviour comes back to the lack of parenting my parents did. The way he acts, and goes on he doesnt get a word said to him. He turned around and punched me for no reason I was walking out the door to go to work the other day, he knocked my shoulder out of place, and luckily my boss is a firefighter and put it back in.
My parents stood there watching him, and goes you deserve it stop bugging him..... I was walking through the room, to leave the house to go to work.
He put 147 viruses and such on my parents computer, whenever it turns on it slows everything down (its connected to the main internet), and so it kicks everyone else off. The internet company actually shut off our internet because there was much sponging our internet.
I get home from work, and I get blamed. So I threw my computer at my Dad, and told hiim if its my computer find these large amounts of virus. BTW he found 0, I told hiim go find the computer that kicks us all off the internet, the main source and scan it. What do you know my brothers computer had 147 viruses.
My coworker came to pick me up, and she saaw his behaviour and was like that kids should get a beat with a two by four. He gets no punishment for his behaviour so he keeps doing it. I told my coworker once Im gone I wont care if I see him again.
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9 responses
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
25 Sep 12
This is irresponsible of your parents. I would hate to have their water bill. It's abusive of them to allow and even condone him to punch you like that. You could call the cops and press charges for assault. You know? Make him responsible for his actions. I'm glad they aren't my parents. I'd never help them out of a jam they put themselves in.
We don't ask to be born and to be mentally abused or abused in any way is just plain WRONG! To condone a kid abusing siblings is just as abusive as if they did it themselves.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
26 Sep 12
If she did that then her parents would probably disown her, not that it would be a bad idea but I'm thinking then she wouldn't have any family left. The same way I think here. So I dunno. He did assault her though and I hate to know someone here is abused in that way and the so called "adults" condone it. I'd like to punch them both!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
25 Sep 12
I am interested in knowing why your family (including you) allow your brother to behave in this manner? Why did you take his abusive behaviour? Why didn't you threaten to call the police for assaulting you? WQhy are your parents condoning your being bhit by your jerk of a brother? is it cultural or is everyone in your family scared of him?
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
26 Sep 12
One the police wont do anything to him, because he is a minor they would say for my parents to deal with it. My parents see that he does no wrong, doesnt matter if he beats the crap out of you. Now if you fight back, I get the cops called on me, charged, and never hear the end of it because hes some defenseless baby. Doesnt matter if I stand there and he hits me its my fault, a few months ago he punched me in the nose so hard that it almost broke it, bleeding all over the floor. But I deserved it, and he did no wrong yet again I said nothing, and was walking by. But it shows he cant get a job, hold a job, he has no goals, or accomplishments in life, and Im sure it will continue to be like that. I am saving every penny to move and not talk to any of them. I barely talk to them as it is, I cant stand sitting in a room with them, because any little thing I did wrong even though I can proove it, even after they notice themselves they still find a way to point the finger at me. Such as a few weekends ago the wheels on the vacuum went missing, they found it somewhere, and then remember that my Dad put it there, they go you must of moved them.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
25 Sep 12
Arg! I bet you and your sister can't wait to move out! It's so frustrating that there are actually so many people like this, who've been raised to just be little spoiled brats because their parents couldn't say no to them.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 Sep 12
If it was me I'd be screaming and banging on the door so loud that if my parents were home even they would hear it. Even if it got me in trouble and yelled at I'd be dang sure that it'd get him yelled at or atleast reprimanded too. If he'd had hit me he wouldn't have liked it because I would have been sure to hit him right back as well.
You need out of there as it seems clear to me that your parents have tunnel vision and only see how GOOD your brother is, even when clearly he isn't.
@clrmoney (41)
• United States
25 Sep 12
a lot of people do things wrongs to other and they have moved on and forgot about it. but one day when something happens to them and they don't know why that's when their demons come back to hunt them. yes it true whats goes around comes around, it will be back around again to you ,to me,to everyone.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
26 Sep 12
There are instances in families that are dysfunctional where that happens and I'm so embarassed for them. To be like that, I mean. It is almost like here as you already know. Luckily my brother wouldn't punch me, that is downright physical abusiveness itself and it should not be tolerated. You didn't deserve it at all. My mom wouldn't tolerate it from my brother thankfully. That is where she would draw the line, but she does go and over protect him in many cases and enables him in many cases as well. So what did your dad say after it was proven that you didn't put all those viruses on the computer? Does he really think you're that dumb? I'm glad someone witnessed the behaviour, at least and can side in with you if needed. It is so sad with some families. I can't comprehend why some parents do this other than the fact their brains aren't developing right somehow or another. Something is going on in their heads that is wrong, possibly even a brain tumor in my opinion. I eve tell my mom about some of the stories you tell us and she is alarmed by it all. But it still doesn't change some of her own behaviour. He treating me like I'm dumb with her attitude of I "should know this or that" ( usually something unfair of how I should know it!) when she doesn't even know simple facts such as that dinosaurs don't exist anymore or how many days in a year there is! I'm not kidding... And your parents should stop making your brother out to be the brat he will always be, cause he will end up in jail one day if he doesn't straighten up, I'd bet on it. And it will be your parent's fault.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Your parents should be the ones who must stop the bad attitudes of your brother.They should let him know that bad manners will not give him good credits especially when finding a work one of these days.He should show to all that he was transforming into a good boy.
@much2say (55912)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Sep 12
I wonder why your brother gets away with so much?! He is disrespectful all on his own, but it sounds like he a product of how your parents brought him up - and he's still spoiled rotten! Someday he will have no choice but to be on his own - and it will happen - and it will be interesting to see how he can manage life all by himself without mommy and daddy backing him up.
Sorry you get the short end of the stick - I just don't get how your parents can blame you for all this stuff. It's like they have tunnel vision about things - it's just not right.
Do I keep saying you should move out asap? I think he needs to get off his butt and move out himself. How lovely he takes 4 showers a day and I'll bet he pays zero for the water bill. 
@Rohitt03011979 (249)
• India
25 Sep 12
Hi ricki!
Its so sad that your brother behaves so badly.i think you should keep no sympathy with him.just treat him strictly.if your parents are not with you then you must have to take step for you.you can close his door in morning and open only after you are ready for going out.likewise in other cases.
You are right that karma will come back.but its not necessary that he gets in this birth.and moreover you cannot live everything to karma.you have full right to protect your interest.have a good day.
