personal issues

I think there's no point to all of these if she doesn't want to change. It seems to me that she just complains but doesn't do anything about it - therefore, she's not ready for help. This actually reminded me of a past relationship where he was older than me too and I only took the relationship because I didn't have anything better to do. hahaha.. I was doing great career-wise and when we met I was working and he was working as well, I wasn't really "attracted" to the guy but just thought to try things because I never had a relationship before. It was after a few days that I realized that the relationship wouldn't be for long-term. He was controlling and always felt that he knew better than me and always told me that my thoughts in life was too "childish". But it wasn't after a particular incident that I really decided to get out of it. It was while he was driving that I noticed a new type of sign on the roadways, I asked him about it (because I honestly didn't know what it was and wanted to learn more) then he said "just let it be, it doesn't concern you because you don't drive." I mean, what type of an answer was that, right?? I knew then that he was stiff and since I wasn't really attracted to him, then the decision of breaking up was not difficult. I think you cannot do anything for her. You may think that you need to do something bout her situation, but she doesn't want out - you cannot force her. I think you can just help by just being there when she needs someone to talk to but don't think too much about it because she isn't doing anything to change her situation. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

Talk to her and show her the bigger picture of that relationship. Tell her you are helping her and treat as loan so taht her pride will not be hurt. she has to move on so life has to have meaning. Might next to that TV trouble is physically abuse. That is too much already. That guy is a self centered person.

It is never acceptable for a man to control a woman, so she should try to get help about it. If she can talk to him about his anger and his issues then she should try to get somebody to help him like a doctor or a counsellor as it might be something that is wrong with his mind. If nothing changes then she should try to get out of the relationship because I don't think that anybody ever deserves to be treated like that, no matter who they are or what they might have done. She should stay with a friend if she has no money; I am sure that a lot of people would be willing to let her stay for a short time.

Oh my. It's good that we don't watch TV anymore. We seldom watch tv at home so we don't fight with the tv channels. I guess our son will definitely win if ever we'll watch tv. I guess she has to tell him how she feels. That is a relationship. They should give and take. If she doesn't like something about it, she should gather her strength to tell let him know. I hope she will listen to her. If not, she should ask help from her family. They should be the one to talk to the guy.