Is she really over-age for me?

By all means my dear, go. Go ask her out. In love, age doesn't matter. I am eight years younger than my husband and our relationship is almost ten years now. His maturity keeps me level-headed while I keep him young and happy. We compliment each other so much.

My husband is younger than me. There is nothing wrong with that. If you don't try and see what happens you will never know. Good Luck. :)

if does not matter, if you like this person and you think you would be able to match up with her smart, wit and all. if you feel attracted, why not get to know her and see if there is more than what you see now... i am sure she would first feel awkward about it because 10 years is such a huge age gap.. but people are really very open these days, and we understand such - afterall... it is your decision and your relationship to be. wherever or whatever will make you happy then go for it.

Well,go for it if you really like a person then you should tell her because you will regret one day if you don't.Age does not really matter and what matter most is that you love each other.

Hello Jatelo2, greetings. As the saying goes, "age doesn't matter". But you have to consider other things as well like; How mature you are to cope up with her, How many children you are planning to have in your married life (just in case you both end up this far).

First gather full details about her. Study her liking and disliking. Then if you think that it is ok to approach her. Then move ahead. Best of Luck. :-)

Honestly I would say go for it! After all age is just a number and I don't feel that should be a deal breaker in any relationship. My boyfriend is younger then me by 5 years and things are awesome with him, I couldn't be happier! Please keep us posted if you do decide to approach her and ask her out!

Well first you need to make sure she doesn't have a husband and kids. If she's single then you can express to her your feelings. There's nothing wrong with being in love with an older woman or an older guy. It's just age.

If you are in your early thirties, then I would say that you're old enough to know what you want, and you should know whether it is right for you or not. I don't think that age is as much of a problem as other people would say that it was, and I would never give up on love if the only thing that you don't like about her is how old she is. She might feel younger than she is, and you might feel a little more mature than other people your age, so there is no reason why you shouldn't let this lady know how you feel and see how she feels about you.

Do you respect age?Love is not enough to marry anybody.This is a hard fact,but is true.That this woman is older than you is a dangerous signal,ideally you are suppose to marry or date somebody younger,so that the fellow will look up to you as big brother or father,but the opposite happens when you date somebody much older.If one pretends that they are guided by love.It is hypocritical,it is a matter of time.At best you good friends not any intimate relationship.If you are blinded by beauty as other men,the consequence is not always good.I fear she will not respect you,because you are younger,even she professes love,wait until you have misunderstanding and the stark reality will stare you in the face.

Love is blind.. sometimes we can`t predict which one can be our wife or husband someday but don`t you think that a 40 years woman is too risky when pregnant and give birth?? just giving one consideration for you beside your current feeling to her

I believe that age doesn't matter if you like a person. So what is you are 10 years younger? I have never known any law against a large age gap between a man and a woman. If you really like this girl,GO FOR IT ! You wouldn't know what you have missed if you don't get this chance. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

First, you must try to know if the woman is still single. Because if she is, then why not? Nowadays, there are a lot of May-December affairs and it's just but natural . So, go for it. Once you know that she is single, you can start by smiling at her whenever you see her. And when she smiles back whenever you meet her, you can already introduce yourself and be friends with her. That will be a nice start for the both of you.

I think age has nothing to do in these matters, when force of attraction is working. But confirm or make that force of attraction is there on both sides to get pleasant results.