Have you ever Fall In Love by Accident...? (I know I fall from a tree) ~_~

Oh its been a long time since i have that kind of feeling Ms. Jai... well i am inlove with my husband but how i wish the butterflies would come back. lol..

Hi Jai! I do not believe in accidents and if any such 'accident' happens, it would be temporary and momentary and it ill not last long. If someone tells me that I made her fall in love my heart beat will get faster and I may feel dizzy.

never will ever happen with me - this is how confident I am And so I dont think about this happening anytime anywhere with me

Hmmm, falling in love by accident....I think my experience with that would be this. I have a classmate who likes one of my friends. This guy asked help from me- like I would be building up his image, I will be his messenger for the flowers and letters for my classmate. Incidentally, one of the friends of this guy likes me. And since her knew that the guy courting my friend is close to me, he asked his friend to give the flowers and letters and other gifts to me. To make the story short, the guy and my friend did not become a couple. And the one courting me, I turned him down ,too. And guess what? I ended up with my classmate who used to like my friend. We actually were together for almost 3 years.

hi jai, I did not just once but twice and both did not work out Well maybe one day I might fall in your staircase

Jai, this kind of love accidents are quite common, in our day to day life we meet a lot of persons and impressed with some persons physical appearance, but it is not a love, may be it is an infatuation or an impact. This kind of accidents will happen every day, but love at first sight is quite impossible for me and i don't have any faith with this kind of instant love

I wouldn't say that I fell in love "accidentally" with Ed, but during the first time I saw him, it was like getting punched in the stomach without the pain. Somehow, I KNEW he would figure prominently in my life. It took four years and three months before anything happened, and another two and a half before I was absolutely sure that I was head-over-heels in love with him. Unfortunately, we broke up one month shy of our seven year anniversary, but I'll always remember him as the first man I WAS in love with. And I never thought our relationship our relationship would last beyond a few weeks!

My guy knew not to say he fell in love at fight sight. But... he did tell me he fell for me at the beginning.For me , we were just friends. All I saw was a nice man, but love? No! It took a long time for me to realize he was the man I had been looking for! That is when the time stopped, I felt him with every heartbeat and all those other " cheesy" things happened. Have I ever had a guy fall for me and I didn't feel the same way? No. So this is a guess. Knowing me I would sit him down and gently tell him the truth. Do I believe some couples fall in love at first sight? Yes. It is rare but it does happen.

this is serious. it happened when i was in third year high. during the break in class, i saw a beautiful girl smiling at me from outside the classroom. well, i really thought that smile was for me. and i was kinda shy after knowing, it was for my classmate. incidentally, that classmate of mine is also my "barkada" until today. that started it all. i made everything to get close to that girl, with the help of the "barkada". i got her "yes" after courting her for months. but the relationship never last longer and we broke up. a year passed, after one relationship that also did not last long, i came back to her and accepted me back. but then again, the second stage of our relationship did not last long. when i got married, i thought she was going to church to stop the wedding, but she did not. when my marriage broke-up, she planned to follow me in cebu, as her marriage also did not succeed. long long long story... but we still remain good good friends, until now.

This is usually the result of pheromones, it is a homonal response to another human. It can be only one way or both may respond to this. When we are young an inexperienced we tend to look at this as romance. But as adults we should see it for what it is and if both parties are not responding, just enjoy the feelings and move on. When and if both respond then other options can be approached.

It is so easy to fall in love with people by accident. Most of the people who I am friends with are males, and this means that they are always introducing me to their friends. The partner who I am with at the moment was somebody who I met through a friend, and I didn't plan on falling in love with him. If anything, he wasn't my type at all and I just thought that we would be good friends. However, we are in love and have been together for over three years now and I have been happy with him for a long time, so sometimes falling in love by accident can be a good thing.

yes,I did.but I don't know why?I found it by accident but unfortunately I lose it easily

Hi Jaiho, another love discussion. You're really into love. I think falling in love is too deep to describe. Its like catching up your breath. Wishing your love would feel the same way. Too long nights while waiting. If he/she loves you too, it's like heaven, hoping for a never ending story. If he/she doesn't love you back. Your heart will pause for awhile. Your world will stop rotating. It might takes time before you come back to reality.

I think falling in love by accident is very possible. Like when two soul mates meet for first time. There is just this feeling of knowing this person is the one that is for you. When two souls meet on a very special level and you fall in love with each other. You deeply care about everything about the other person. You can't go a minute without thinking about him or her. I think what is said is if this happens and both feel the same but years later one of the people fall out of love. Falling out of love is the most painful hurt. I am married over 20 years but I can't find those feelings for my husband anymore because he fell out of love at one time with me. I have a special place in my heart for that love with someone else now and yes it was by mistake. Falling in love sometimes happens when we are not looking for love.

Love is a funny thing,we really don't know when we are going to fall in love. It is something that just happens. That being said, people can learn to love someone who is good to them, but that still isn't the same spontaneous feeling as falling in love.

Falling in love and growing into love are two different things. Falling in love is always accidental. Mostly it's falling in lust, but perhaps not every time. The bells and whistles can become addicitve, which is perhaps why some people cannot resist having affairs - not because they have stopped loving their partner, but because they crave the excitement of a new affair. Love that lasts is much more important in the long run. Lash

Still I have no such feeling because my marriage is fix in 10 days and performed it. Me and my husband not meet before marriage. I have no boy friend so no idea fall in love by accident.

Features resembling partner of your imaginations if found in someone make you to like that person by choice. This liking may get converted to love if this feeling is on both sides or the other person accepts signals of your eyes or mannerism about his/her liking. Mutuality of liking is love, and unilateral love is just a liking. Liking and getting attracted are two different things and should not be mixed up. Attraction may be for lust. Once you have a feeling of intense liking, you can't restrain yourself from expressing it. Words may not be needed for this if such a liking is not limited to the virtual word. The foremost and the most powerful signals emit from eyes if the two pairs find an opportunity to meet. Else, the most practical and long-lasting loving relationship gets going for reason of mutual necessities and their fulfillment.

Yes, I have fallen in love by "accident", although looking back on it, the love was growing during the time we were friends, but I did not know it. I had a friend who was like a cousin to me, we are not related, but we got along really well, like we were family or something. We use to hang out together, eat together, watch movies, just chill. One day, I learned that my dad was sick, my dad lived in another city. I had to leave the city that I was in and go to be with my dad and take care of him. I told my friend that I was going out of town, and asked him to watch my apartment for me while I was gone. The day before the time came for me to leave, my friend came over to get the keys to my apartment. We were casually talking as usual...I went to hand him my keys and looked into his eyes, and **BOOM!!!**, it was like something had hit me right across the face. It was like an explosion went off inside me. I actually physically felt it, like the feeling that you get when you go down a steep drop on a rollercoaster, how your stomach drops...only this was deeper than that. From that day on, I was no longer just his friend, I was in love with him, but like I said, the love had been building the whole time during the friendship, I just didn't know that. I never meant to fall in love with him, it was an accident. I think a lot of times people "accidentally" fall in love with someone they have been hanging out with for awhile. They've never thought of that person as anything other than a friend, and then one day *fireworks*. It is strange when it happens, because you could be friends with 40 different people and hang out with different ones at different times. You call and text and go out to eat, and you don't feel anything but friendship for any of them, and then one day, out of the blue...BAM, you're in love with one of them. And how do you know that you're in love, oh...you'll know.

I wouldn't say by 'Accident' since I don't believe in that actually happing. To love or not to love is a personal decision informed by mutual feelings. Back to your question, I think I have had some infatuations with some ladies that I have after all been not proud of!