What really makes me mad in this life
@strawpurple6763 (372)
United States
September 26, 2012 4:55am CST
There are people in my life that say they care about me and I know that they really don't. I really don't care.My Health is not the greatest in the world right now and I don't need people telling me what I can and can't do.We will my father is dieing and me and my younger sister are being told that we can't go down there and see him and that he has cut us out of his life. Well you know all wrath of me and my other sister is going to come out. And I have the lawyers that are going to back me up and no one will see anything by the time I am done. Medically I am not well, because of some other issues I come up. But I will get through it. Because I don't plan on dieing yet. When I need help no one would help me, or come see me in the hospital or call me and see how I was doing. My mother called, My younger sister called, two of my friends called. But do you think anyone else would no. The only time I would hear from anyone else if they wanted or needed something. Well I am tried of it all. Does anyone call me and ask me if I would like to spend time with them and maybe go out to lunch no they do not. By the way middle sister you don't need to call mom about what I wrote. Because she will all ready will know. I'm sorry if this hurts your feeling or makes you mad it is how I feel about every one of you.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
I am so sorry about how you are feeling. I guess some people just don't care like the way they are saying. Everyday activities sometimes make a person forget the most important things in life. Do not feel bad about your family. I am sure they love you and care for you a lot. It would be much better if you will have an open communication among yourselves and let them know how you feel about it. I hope that helps. Cheer up!
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@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
4 Oct 12
Thank you for your input. It does help. But they are never going to change. They have been this way all my life. So I don't know why they would now.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
It must be really difficult for you to be caught in such situation. Just do things that will occupy your mind and try not to be too bothered by them.
@Tonette1592 (4)
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26 Sep 12
The same thing happened to me too. At a young age of 10 I realized that during times of troubles most people would really go away. I believe that you can get through it. One of my mentors at work told me that we have an average of 2 true friends in our lifetime. I guess we won't really know who these true friends are until the friendship is tested. I hope your medical condition will get better soon. I am not sure if you pray but it helps.
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@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
4 Oct 12
Your right when there is times of trouble, people seems to run away from it.People said they would be there to help me. They just turned there back on me.You can only count on the ones that are there.
@shaggin (72240)
• United States
26 Sep 12
Its sad when we find out who truely cares about us but its good to know so we arent wasteing time on people who wont care about us and our only using us. If I was in the hospital I think only my immediate family would come and thats probably about it. I am sorry for what you are going through both your father dying and you being not well has to be hard. I dont know why people wont let you go see your father but I think its a shame.
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@celticeagle (168269)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Sep 12
I can certainly understand why you would be upset by not being able to see your parent when they are sick. It sounds like you are sick also and not getting the loving attention of your family. That is very hard to take. Why would any loving person keep a family member away from another family member. That is mean. I am sorry you have to go through all of this.
@GemmaR (8517)
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26 Sep 12
I have been through something like this recently, and in a way it was nice to see the people who really do care rather than getting rid of the people who really don't. I was shocked to find that some of the people who I had been "friends" with since school didn't seem to bother about what was happening to me, even though they knew that I needed help. My family were brilliant, and there were a few friends who I didn't think were that close to me before who were really helpful and I now class as some of my best friends.
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@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
4 Oct 12
I know what you mean. My mom and youngest sister and a very good friend of mine have been helping me. To get through the things I have to work through.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
I don't know what I feel about this but one thing for sure, I'm hoping that you have the wisdom, courage and strength to face what all the trials you have. May you have peace of mind and peace among your relatives for life is too short to be just like that. Our decision lies within us and it's our choice to make whatever it is. Thanks and Good luck.
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@thedataminer (515)
• United States
14 Oct 12
I feel for you; I can relate. I moved miles back to live in this small city I can't stand just to see my sister and my family. I even came back to live in another dumpy trailer when I could of found a nice apartment and I was close to a much bigger city. So I sacrificed my happiness only to come back and not be treated that good. She wouldn't even come pick me and my son up for Christmas like she did at Thanksgiving because she got mad over nothing (at us) on Thanksgiving. We were a little bored having to sit there all day plus my son hurt himself turning on her bathroom faucet. She was mad without telling us for 3 weeks until close on a week before Christmas. I called her to ask her about picking us up and like allot of other Christmas I got no welcome for Christmas so I guess no invite either. My son and I spend Christmas alone with no presents, no tree and nothing good to eat. We went to this church to eat - it was something to eat but it wasn't very good. And this isn't the half of the problems. Your lucky to have 1 sister your close to.
