I am blessed...
By renj13
@renj13 (69)
September 26, 2012 5:50am CST
Real good friends are hard to find but thank God i am blessed with real good friends...I've been through thick and thin but they stood by me and never leave me. They always listen, understand and support me.
Through good and bad times we stick together. Even if we all have our own family now,we always see to it that we never lost communications.
I also have a best friend who stood by me through my darkest hour. Support me when i am so down and never ask anything in return,instead, only want me to be strong and helped me to gain my confidence again and want me to stay fit and beautiful...
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19 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
These true friends are really hard to find. Once you found them, we cherish every moment we have with them. I have read an article before saying the reason why we have these people stay with us and become part of our lives is because they are our soul mates. It was a notion that a soul mate is somebody who has an intimate relationship, between a man and a woman only, and that there in only one soul mate for every individual. It was said that our dearest friends could be our soul mates because they are the people we really get along with and they are also the ones whom we share the same thoughts and other things.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
I would completely agree with you once. The value of your friends, you would know not when they are there with you. You do so much fun when you are together with them and are happy always. But when it comes to depart or separation, then its extremely painful.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
It is always hard to be separated from friends physically. But real friends stay good friends amidst distance.
@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
Such wonderful friendship you have there!!! truly bless..
Continue to be a true friends to them and they would do the same to you.. . It's great to have true friends especially in these days, so many things to solve and take challenges in life. You need real true friends to help you and be with you.
@GemmaR (8517)
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26 Sep 12
It is great that you have a set of good friends, and I am lucky enough to have one as well. We have all been through quite a lot in the past five year, with people passing away and getting married and lots of other things. Our friendships have been tested, and there have been times where I haven't seen them for a long time in one go, but at the end of the day I always know that if I really need them for whatever reason then they are going to be there for me, because they care about me just as much as I care about them.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
Even I am in sort of a transition phase now. Some of my friends are getting married whereas some are going abroad for higher studies. there is an air of anxiety around me since I feel sad when these people go. I hope I would be pick myself up and move on.
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Hello there Renj. You are so lucky for having your real good friends with you. It's also good that they never left you through good times and bad. I think in life, we could meet a lot of friends but only few of them are real. Only few would stand by us no matter how hard our situations may be. It's good you have your real friends who are always there with you no matter what.
I think I'm also lucky because I could say that I also have my real friends who are always there for me. Whenever I have my problems, they always try their best to give me some good pieces of advice. Whenever I'm feeling so down, they are always there to cheer me up. They are always ready to do some things to put the smiles back on my face. Of course, when I'm feeling so happy, I could say that they are also grateful for the things happening to me. I'm so glad to have them and I'm really excited to be with them again this Christmas time. Let's always be grateful in life because God has given us the greatest friends we could ever have. Happy myLotting. :)
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
In schools we have so many friends. Once we move out of school, many of them drop out of our minds too just like that . Same thing happens when we move out of college also. But I can tell you one thing, those who remain are the real friends that you have. You should always treat them as your assets.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Sep 12
It is not only that you are blessed. What is more important is that you are able to regognize a true friend and you know you are blessed!
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
You have indeed mentioned about a very important quality kitty. We know that its hard to find good people. But to recognize good people out of the lots is really a tough job. If you are successful in that, then I would call you have got a treasure. And as said, do preserve your treasure.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
26 Sep 12
Friends are truly a blessing, renj. We should always consider them as a gem of special value because they are hard to find. I wish you will continue to have a good relationship with you friends. Have a nice day!
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
As you mentioned, good friends are always hard to find. Depending on your money and popularity, people will flock around you.. But to find a sincere person out of them is very tough. We only can hope that we will always have a company of good friends.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Sep 12
I can say that I am so blessed too given the best friend of my life --my husband. He's always there for me. God is so good for giving me a gift in him. even if he's not with me right now, as i am working here in the US and he's in the philippines distance did not change the fact that we're always there for each other. he's taking good care of our kids and working at the same time. anoter blessing that's coming our way is the time that we will be reunited here in the US and i already claimed that it will happen next year!
@almondchoklet8 (28)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
My dearest One,
Friendship is indeed a True blessing.
I'm quite sure your DESERVING to have such a very good friend...:)
Going over here has made me remember how wondrous a real friend can be.
You always leave me with Sweet Taste =)
Thanks for sharing meaningful Pieces
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
26 Sep 12
everyone in this world are surely blessed in one way or another and we must proud of it to gain confidence and keep working always
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Sep 12
I am happy for you when you have some best friends. I have some closed friends too and we are always happy whenever we can meet in person because right now we live far away. We have many friends, but closed friends, we just have some only.
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
You are so lucky to have real friends in a world like this today I mean people are just looking for fun and just trying to work hard to get what they want and only for themselves they do not give a thing about other people. Friends are friends no matter what but your friends are people you should value, considering that real friends are rare these days. Goodluck with you and your friends and happy mylotting :)
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
To know the true quality pf your friends, you should be in a trouble some solution. Only then you would see who stands with you and who dont. Sometimes, someone you thought or you trust a lot would be the one to go away first. Its hard to guess on characters of the people.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
That is a very true statement that you have spoken. In this world, its really hard to find who are true and who are not. You may be nice with people, but people may not reciprocate the same way. You have to indeed lucky to get very good friends.
@crimsonose80 (283)
• Canada
26 Sep 12
Genuine friends are treasures sent from God..They help us, guide us, stick with us through thick and thin..They love you for who you are and the person you can be..
You are very lucky to have friends like you do..They are very hard to find..
Many people will come in your life but a true friend will leave footprints in your heart..
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
The saying, friend in need is a friend indeed is quite an apt prove for this discussion. Its not how long you have been friend with someone or how long you know some one that really matters. What matters if he/she worth the relation. People prove their mettle and sincerity when pushed to limits.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Sep 12
A real friend is worthier than any riches in the world. I know this well as well as how you know it. I have a friend who we meet during our school days. Its been almost 15 years of our friendship and I have to say he has stood with me at all times. Not that he calls me everyday or i call him everyday. But we have stayed together and seen through the problems together. i am proud to have a friend like him.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 12
Nowadays, true friends are really hard to come by. I have office friends but none is my true friends. I have been working there for over 10 years but I haven't found one yet so far. However, I don't want to bother my head about it.
@kimilawini (111)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
..and in the same manner, they are blesses to have someone like you who recognizes their worth. :) true enough, rough times will always test who gets to stay with you and sticks with you no matter what. You're blessed... and lucky too! :D
@naster (13)
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27 Sep 12
Friends are necessary for us because not only they can cheer us up when we are down,but also hands
must be given when we are confronted with difficulties.Friendship is something that I cannot figure out altogether,making us feel there will be always someone waiting there for us.Having real
good friends need efforts,but sometimes friendship comes just when we even don't know.You are luck,or maybe you are skillfull in communicating with people.Skill or fortune? Maybe you have both
.What't more is that keeping track with friends is more important.Sharing and common experiences can be substantive helpfull.